My Ex broke it off with me a few months back. She hasn't contacted me. I informed her of a friend of hers who told me not to trust her. She started emailing a mutual friend of ours and started saying that I'm trying to cause trouble with her and her friends and that I don't want her to be friends with no one. It's not true, I just wanted her to know what her so called friend was saying behind her back. Then she emailed two more times to this mutual friend and the entire time I was getting copies of the email where she was talking about me. I responded back to her in my defense and she said the following: PLEASE DO NOT EMAIL, PHONE, SNAIL MAIL, ETC ETC THIS IS GETTING OUT OF HAND, WE ARE GETTING UPSET. THANK YOU What is her damn problem? Why does she continue to talk about me like that? This is upsetting. What should I do?
2007-03-06 01:28:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will tell you one thing. You care about her, you don't want her to get hurt in any way. But I'll tell one thing about girls, if they start to think or hate / don't like somebody no matter if world changes they won't stop hating them. So its better you keep out of contact. I know you will feel bad when you read this but its better for you the sooner you go thru it. I read somewhere instead of staying close and becoming pain for somebody's life better be far and bring happiness in their life by staying far.
Life is always unfair my friend. Just ignore her don't think of her or else you will become mad like me.
2007-03-06 01:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when 1 talks about someone else behind there back that person will do the same to u.Now if u r done with your ex then b done don't even bother trying to b nice cuz by the sounds of it she doesn't care and why should u for u r not with her anymore so she isn't your problem even if u where just trying to b nice.She will learn for herself what her friend is all about n maybe it's time to just say goodbye and move on with your life.Good luck
2007-03-06 09:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she believes her so called friends over you. She is trying to get under your skin, don't let her. Be the bigger person and just walk away. I know she said not to contact her in any way, but I would send one last email to her and tell her to not contact you in any way or form and to stop including you on these childish emails. She sounds very immature, you can find someone so much better for you.
2007-03-06 09:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Important 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say, e-mail or respond to her anything. Just let her be in her position. I think that she likes to resume the relationship with you but is not getting way to say that due to prestige issue.
Anyway, I would suggest you not to allow her to be with you again. A woman with too much fluctuating mind is not dependable and usually causes a lot of hazards. If you remain silent, gradually, she would find her way somewhere else and would forget you.
All the best of luck.
2007-03-06 09:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by The Falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u get and email from her friend just forward it to her and put a read receipt on it (then u know she read it)---then she will know her friend is talking behind her back
i would just ignore her---it sounds like she needs to figure who her real friends are---just leave her alone for now
i wouldn't want her going psycho and getting a restraining order on you because she sounds like one of those types---just back away and let her make her own mistakes
2007-03-06 09:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Bailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her, as hard as it is. I've been through it and it's best to just get the hell away from all of it as fast as possible. Find someone that will treat you right, she sounds a little iffy, i had one like that once.... im much happier now
2007-03-06 09:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by Life Is Illusive 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do yourself a favour, i know its not easy, but you have to leave your ex. He is in a new relationship, thats why he keep on giving you excuses. Deal with the pain and get a life. they are many nice guys out there waiting for you to catch. So take it easy. Gud luck.
2007-03-06 09:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by mathandashukela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it.....That is simply the best thing to do if she doesn't get a reaction from you she will leave it alone sooner or later cause who wants to argue with a wall you know????
2007-03-06 09:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tried to do your ex a favor by warning her of this friend who cannot be trusted. Your ex has chosen to ignore your advice. Leave it, and her alone. Eventually she'll find out the hard way.
2007-03-06 09:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop the drama! You and she are over - let it die. Ignore any further communication from her. Do not acknowledge friends comments about her. Do not speak of her - good or bad.
You'll feel much better.
2007-03-06 09:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋