My best friend is currently living with her boyfriend but she doesn't want to be with him anymore. The problem is that she wants to move back to our home state but she can't until she finds a job and a place to live. It's driving her nuts staying with her boyfriend and I don't know what to tell her. She wishes she could break up with him now because one of our good friends back home really wants to be with her and she really wants to be with him also. I'm trying to help her out but the only thing I can tell her is wait til she gets a job and moves, then break up with her boyfriend. Does anyone out there have some better advice so I can help her out? Or maybe someone has been in a similar situation. Thanks!
2007-03-06 01:28:30 · 5 answers · asked by dolfingrrl928 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not staying with him because she needs money, she actually makes more than her boyfriend does. She just wants to secure a job before moving. I'd let her live with me but she doesn't want to put that burden on anyone. Her mom even offered to let her move back home temporarily.
2007-03-06 01:38:38 · update #1
If she doesn't want to be with him, then she should leave. She shouldn't be staying with him just because she wants a place to live. It's not fair on him and it's not fair on her. I'm sure she has friends who will take her in for a few weeks.
2007-03-06 01:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend thinks it's ok to be with her current bf for monetary purposes then she should see nothing wrong with telling the guy she wants to be with to let her move in with him until she gets on her feet. Why is it ok to use one and not the other especially if the other guy back home would get something out of it. I mean the poor shmuck she's with now isn't getting aything from her if she feels that way towards him. She should just be thankful he hasn't caught on and kicked her to the curb. I'm sure if the tables were turned that's what she would do to him.
2007-03-06 09:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by vanillashimmer21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to stop using her boyfriend economically and get out of the relationship. If she doesn't want to be with him, then tell her to leave. That's not nice to her boyfriend to keep a relationship going just because she needs money.
2007-03-06 09:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if we have to make a step only after everything is ready, it will be late.
she has to go there to make it, sitting and sighing is very boring.
we can make it only when we are moving.
if staying with him drives her crazy , she d better go somewhere befeore she gets hospitalized.
like Mohamad said " if mountain will not move , I will move"
or I would say " if mom doesnt give milk , I will go to the texas to find cow"
good luck. to you , your friend and finally me myself.(I am gonna go to texas)!!!
2007-03-06 09:41:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her stay with u or that guys she likes till she finds a job.
2007-03-06 09:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋