hey im 13 years old and i really want a boyfriend?

Question

hi im 13 years old and i really want a boyfriend i know i sound sill but i want a guy to be there for me and to be sweet and kind and like me for who i a i feel like ill never get one because i havent even had my frist kiss yet but i really want it to be with someone i ike alot am i ever going to get one??xxxxx

Answer 1

First off. Let me start by saying you are NOT too young to have a boyfriend! That's silly for people to say. A lot of young people have boyfriends and girlfriends and that's perfectly fine that you want a boyfriend so don't feel bad about your desire to meet someone. We all have those feelings in us. Sooner or later you will meet someone but when the time comes do not just accept anyone just because you want a boyfriend really bad. You have to have someone that respects you. With any relationship comes trust and understanding and the odd's are against people as young as yourself really getting the deep emotional impact a romantic relationship has to offer sometimes. I'm not saying it can't happen but it's certainly not often. It's nature for a girl or boy your age to want a boy or girlfriend. It's part of life. But ask youself why you want one so much right now. Is it because all your friends have one and you feel left out? Is there something you could be doing for yourself to make yourself feel better about you? Maybe an after school program? Untill the day comes when you find that special guy, just chill out, relax and have fun. It's when you STOP looking that usually someone will find you! So until that happens, just love yourself. It's the strongest love there is!

Answer 2

I'm going to be 24 and I had my first kiss just two years ago. I do understand how you feel but my opinion don't worry about it just think about school. Because when you least expect it, it will happen naturally. So don't think about it because it's just going to eat you up inside and confusion and the whole nine yards. So try not to think about just have fun with friends etc. Trust me when you don't expect something that's when it usually happens. It could be just a week, a month, a year, or a few years only time will tell. So go have some fun and don't let the subject eat you up because you won't get much accomplished.

Answer 3

Hi! I'm 13 and when I saw your question I wasn't really interested. I mean I like the things you said and all that stuff but I'm a boy and I didn't know what to answer. But I saw the other answers and I got really mad. I mean it's stupid to write an answer and not to answer at the same time, isn't it?
Yes you are too young for serous relationships but it's nice to say "I have a boyfriend and you don't! =) Just joking...
Yeah... Oh! And about that thing about the first kiss... Have your friends already kissed someone? Wow...
So...
That's all I wanted to say and I would be happy to help you but...
Hey! I can be your E-boyfriend =) What would you say about that?


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Answer 4

wait 3 years to start dating. With out a car wo is going to drive you on these dates?? mommy and daddy? For now just hang out in big groups with both boys and girls. Your too young to worry about guys or your first kiss yet. A lot of girls don't get those to later anyway. I know this might not be the advice you want but it's the advice you need.

Answer 5

Hi little girl!
Your parents TRUST you. plssssss don't break their trust.
the easiest thing for a guy is to fool an innocent young, thing like you.
pls dont go out with boys at this age. the world is a WICKED place. girls who trust can be raped / gang raped. remember, its only people who blindly trust are the ones who get cheated.
dont pay attention to people around you. do ur own thing, study hard, don't fall in ur grades ...these things R an unnecessary emotional burden. STAND ON UR OWN FEET. when ur 20 plus, you can decide what u want.
if u have a daughter, you will understand what i am saying.
really, i have an 11 yr old niece in ohio, i would DIE OF HEART ATTACK, if she starts thinking like you.
pls talk to ur mother/school counsellor.
be a GOOD GIRL. plssssss let ur parents be proud of their little girl.

Answer 6

I understand how you feel. I felt the same way, but once you get a boyfriend, you may not feel the same because guys cant be all perfect and be sweet & kind to you. If you like someone why dont you tell them or do something lol:P Be cool about its not a big deal.

Answer 7

Trust me.. It's not all it's cracked up to be... I didn't get my first kiss until I was 14.. I didn't lose my virginity until I got married... And to tell you the truth, it's not worth the tears at such a young age.. Take your time... Eventually, destiny will place the man in front of you.. Don't push it because then you come across as desperate...

Answer 8

Hey your 13 years old, you don't need a boyfriend. You have plenty of time for that. Enjoy being young.

Answer 9

Honey, there are sexual predetors out there.
Dontcha wanna have a guy who sees you everyday? Or a guy who knows what you look like?!

Your not too young to not have had your first kiss yet! Most girls dont have them til they are like 15-16!

Answer 10

I hate to say it, because I hear this a lot, but wait until you're a little older. There is some wisdom to that advice, no matter how much it doesn't want to be heard.