i need tips from matured guys on how to worm my way into a man's heart. i know i've gat the looks but i need tips on certain behaviours that repel them. av found this great guy and i want to keep him. No jokes pls, am serious here.
2007-03-06 01:14:39 · 17 answers · asked by kikky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, for starters, don't come off too strong. Confidence in a woman is attractive, but too much of it is definitely repulsing. Moderation is the key.
2007-03-06 01:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
...don't try to be anything more then what you are already darling. Fake people don't get very far in relationships otherwise. Just be yourself,...and tell this man what your true desires wants and needs are darling. Nobody ever gets what they want if they don't tell someone what it is that falls into the realm of their desires. Just be honest with yourself first,...and this man second. Looks are always gonna be important to some folks sister,....but it's the REAL guts of your imagination and your inward ideas and beliefs that will create longevity darling. Be straight up about what you want,...and then possibly you might get it babe. There are no guarantees in anything in life darling. Just be true to yourself first and everybody else can come later. Cool??? Good luck hun...and let us all know how it turns out for you two,...OK?
2007-03-06 09:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making him know that, actually, you also have a life without him, so seeing him may not always be convenient, is a sure way of keeping his curiosity aroused. If he is too needy you should dump him, and if he walks he wasn't worth having, and if he is fine with it, then you get to keep your girlfriends and the guy!
2007-03-06 10:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mike L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence, classiness, ability to dress well, good conversational skills, friendliness, a sense of adventure, and a sense of humor.
I rate all of those over looks. Looks are what attracts me in the beginning. But if they are dumb and shallow; I will tire of them very quickly.
2007-03-06 09:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by wileycoyote_the_supergenius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self esteem and independence.A confident woman is very sexy.
The more confidence the better.I (a mature male) don't want to waste time with someone who is focused on negative energies. I want to be able to talk about meaningful things.
2007-03-06 09:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by Michael S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bug him to do something he doesnt want to do. don't start planning the next 10 years together. if he's going out with the boys, let him and go and don't text or call while he's out, unless their is a real emergency. perform oral without him having to ask, good food from time to time. don't get jealous if he's talking to other girls, it doesn't mean anything.
2007-03-06 09:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b yourself
theres no one better than yourself
i as a man really find women who be themselves
very very attractive
you dont need to read a book or take advise from others to be yourself
just be who you are
2007-03-06 09:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by kurupt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A woman who can make me laugh is always an attractive quality.
2007-03-06 09:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men love a woman that is interested in what he says. We like good food and good sex. We don't like to be criticized or nagged. In a nutshell, the better you make us feel about ourselves the better we like it.
2007-03-06 09:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-06 10:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dolly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋