i m in love with a university girl, but i m in fear to told her that i love her, b coz she is very narrow minded , so what should i do
2007-03-06 01:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by raees_khan1987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her straight.
there's no use in brooding over it you know. if you dont tell her that you love her, you'll never know what will happen. who knows, maybe she loves you as well?
but if she doesnt, then there's nothing else you can do but to move on.
but having rejected beats brooding over the matter daily and doing nothing other than to think of what would happen should i tell her, right?
2007-03-06 01:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether a person is narrow minded or open minded does not necessarily have to do with telling them you like them and why, oh and of course how long you have known. If she accepts your offer then congrats hope that it works out, if she refuses then you know that you tried and that it was not meant to be. You won't know either way until you get the courage to tell her.
2007-03-06 09:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you dating her? If not you should start by wooing her-I know that is old fashioned but it works. Send her flowers, take her out, or if money is an issue invite her over to play scrabble or something. Go slow with her, let her get used to the idea of being with you and having fun together (not the sexual kind, cause that doesn't make a love forever relationship last). Then after she gets used to you then tell her, if you tell her too soon it may overwhelm her.
2007-03-06 09:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Alison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....C'mon dude,...it's only lust and fantasy that have taken over your mind here partner. We all know what that kinda stuff feels like reasonably. Hey?....try asking her out on a date...and tell her you think she's pretty darned special. Maybe she'll think you're special too...who knows? You two might even hit it off well together possibly. There are no guarantees in anything in life honestly. It's always fun trying to make a fantasy image come true though. Get busy dude. I hear your clock ticking seriously. You won't know anything until you try my friend. So what are you waiting for otherwise? Get going now...ya hear?
2007-03-06 09:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if someone is "narrow minded" why would you want to involve yourself with them..YOu need to seek someone who is Open minded.*~ GOODLUCK*
ps...just tell her how u feel and if she doesn't feel the same way at least you know for sure* instead of playing the guessing game*
2007-03-06 09:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Time passes quickly, if you put it off; you will not ask her. Just do it, it won't be the end of the world one way or another, and at least you can say that you tried when looking back on it.
2007-03-06 09:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice, can you see yourself married to a narrow minded person, Lust is another subject.
2007-03-06 09:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
narrow minded about having someone tell her that they love her, hmm. Does not sounds too good . . .
2007-03-06 09:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her, tell her how you feel....Get it off your chest and if she says that she doesn't feel the same way then your just going to have to get over it a realize that there is somebody else out that for you.....!!!! .....!!!! Best of Luck <3
2007-03-06 09:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you chose the wrong words to describe her...?
Maybe you're just infactuated with her?
If it means alot to you...tell her, otherwise, you may later regret not doing so. (that can be emotional torture)
2007-03-06 09:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋