I have known this girl for about 2 months. we are good friends and have alot in common, and she is exactly my type. i always thought she was good looking, but just recently i have relized that i like her, and i think i might like her too much. does anybody have any tips on how to tell her my feelings because i am a shy guy. also if i do ask her out and she says no, will it ruin the friendship?
2007-03-06 01:08:01 · 7 answers · asked by zzdan112211 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most likely if you ask her out and she says no, your friendship will become akward... But on the other hand, if you don't try, you won't ever know... I would say, write her a note with explaining your feelings... You keep acting like normal.. If she brings it up in conversation, then your good to go... If she doesn't, then you can continue a somewhat normal friendship...
2007-03-06 01:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first person. Ask some friends you both share to ask if she likes you too. If she say's no, then you'll know not to go any farther. Just, whatever you do, don't just point blank ask her out. I can tell you that it won't ruin the friendship, but the truth is, it will never be the same. It'll just be awkward. If she says she does like you, then you can proceed to ask her out, if you say she's your type, then you two are perfect for each other.
2007-03-06 09:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...you do sound something somewhat shy. Alright. All you go to do is take your chances and ask...but first off tell her how you feel before you ask. Thats all you got to do. Become really good friends and put some trust in eachother. Thats what you got to do. It won't ruin the friendship if she says no, not unless you wanted it to happen, and you did something totally stupid to make it happen. Just believe in your self...tell your self its okay, be calm, and say it to your self, and keep hoping and praying also wishin she says "YES!" when u ask her.
Thats all i can tell ya to do right now.
2007-03-06 09:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, ask her out and if she isn't interested she just hasn't seen how much of a great guy you are. Maybe hang out with a couple of friends and invite her
to hang with you. See if she pay's you any attention.
2007-03-06 09:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be true and tell her that you like her..it is better to be direct even if you're shy..you do want a direct answer too,right?..if she says no,it doesn't mean that your friendship's over..maybe she's not yet ready for that..just take it easy..
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2007-03-06 09:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by sssssssss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep it low key and feel her out first (not feel her up lol) maybe ask some mutal friends (that you trust) thoughts etc. . . .
2007-03-06 09:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste ur life on the "wut if's" just ask her!!!!!!!!!!!! if she says no....move on.
if she says yes....you two will probably be happy together.
i wish u the best of luck
2007-03-06 09:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by Kimber Gem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋