i broke up with my boy friend since i have no more feelings for him. after 1 year of relationship. no sparkles nothing. i was really honest with him and have been telling him for the last couple of months what are my feelings. anyway. he called me " mean woman" and that really hurt my feelings cause all i've been is a wonderful girl friend to him and that is one of the main reasons im braking up with him because its all me in this relationship. should i just ignore him?
2007-03-06 00:53:17 · 11 answers · asked by quillera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're not mean. His ego just got a little bit of a knock. He'll get over it, so, yes, ignore him.
2007-03-06 00:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course you are not mean.
If you dont love someone anymore it would be mean to stay with them and not give them the chance to meet someone who did love them. You are just being honest with him
I went through the same thing a couple of years ago and felt terribile because I didnt have a reason to break up with im other than the fact that I didnt love him. Sometimes its easier to break up if there is a more solid reason. He is powerless to change the way that you feel and this is why he is so upset about it.
Dont worry, time will heal him and its better that you let him go than stay with him just to hurt his feelings later.
2007-03-06 01:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
him calling you mean may have just come out of pain. If you were honest with him and can seriously say to yourself that you were not deliberately trying to hurt him, then you are NOT mean.
Things like that happen, and in relationships it is not uncommon for someone to like the other person more, and be more involved.
You say that you were a good gf and a relationship is usually 50-50 on average. There are days when you have to give in, and days when he does.
Good luck!
2007-03-06 01:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Belle E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space, he is hurt and wants to hit back.Time is a great healer.I think you did the right thing, takes a brave person to end things and move on. Hugs x
2007-03-06 00:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by mother hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did absolutely nothing wrong. he is just being sad and turning his sadness into anger onto you. don't worry, he probably doesn't mean it. he's just upset. i can tell you are a great girl=) don't let his words put you down!
2007-03-06 00:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by heartiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm hard to say as it depends on the way u put it across but at least u have been frank to him, if he persist u have no choice but to move on and ignore. cheers.
2007-03-06 00:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would he's the mean one you did nothing wrong except telling the truth good on ya girl
2007-03-06 00:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by you are my angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had no feelings for him then yes you are a mean person..... how can you be a good girlfriend if you have no feelings for them.....
2007-03-06 01:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him , he is just hurt that you broke up wiht him
2007-03-06 01:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by mommaknowsbest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not mean
2007-03-06 00:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by janice m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋