Heya this is a question i have for everyone, especially the guys. When a guy says to his girl, i just dont feel the same way about you anymore, does their have to be a reason for that happening or can that just happen???
2007-03-06 00:50:17 · 7 answers · asked by Girly Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's always a reason..you can never fall out of love without a reason..:]
2007-03-06 00:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...there's always a reason for everything. Embarrassment, guilt, and shame, can sometimes leave us feeling pretty empty, confused, and wordlessly ineffective. I say you have to get REAL with yourself first,...before you can ever get absolutely REAL with anyone else. My ex girlfriend left me back in November for the third time in my life without any explanation. (she likes having affairs I guess) I always thought that three times would be a charm with her. Man am I feeling pretty silly and stupid. She's left me now so many times in 5 years, that my heart is definitely feeling quite trampled. (nice guy syndrome....doormatt material here) I'm done with the stampeding behavior though. I have now told her that all I wanna see is her tail lites reasonably. I also told her not to come back without any tapping on the brake lites either. You only have to bang your head against the wall so many times before you start asking yourself about all of the pain you're feeling. I'm done with all the comings and going's of this unsettled mischief maker anyways. I did really love her quite deeply too. I don't try to imagine why I did this anymore. She was highly sexual though. (dumb old me anyways) Hey?....everybody makes a mistake now and then partner. Learn from the mistakes and experiences, and then move forward with yourself reasonably. No one else can do it for ya...so get busy. The pain will go away sooner or later,....only if you'll let it. Cool??? Good luck to you my friend. We're just simple minded guys after all....not machines!
2007-03-06 01:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons why people fall out of love. Lack of quality time together, frequent quarrels, changed in attitude, family issues, someone new etc. When you feel as if you are falling out of love, don't just give up. Try to exert effort to bring back the passion and love. Work with your partner to make things work. If at the end of the trying you still feel out-of-love try to assess why you did fall out of love. Be true to yourself. then be man enough to honestly tell your partner the truth. Hopefully she will understand even if she would be mad at first. What is important is that you are not lying to your partner and you are not depriving yourself of happiness...Goodluck
2007-03-06 00:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Smile2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just happens people grow apart some times and just get board with each other.
2007-03-06 00:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by tommy two tone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you have sex ? when you put out too easy sometimes guys have a reverse guilt trip and don't want to be around you no more. Let them chase you until you know each others personality.
2007-03-06 00:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt always a reason sometimes it just happens. Feelings fade away.
2007-03-06 00:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by dream_harts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has to be a reason even if it is just boredom
2007-03-06 00:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋