We are both single, and I have dinner with this guy on average 3-4 times a week. We email a lot, usually about work, but also about silly stuff. We hang out together, doing different things such as going to games and bars. If he didn't have so many other friends, I would have thought that he was into me. Also, I just came out of a long relationship, and is wondering if that's his way of showing support. So, would a guy hang out with a girl a lot (and please define a lot) if he wasn't into her? Thanks for your help!
2007-03-06 00:40:13 · 15 answers · asked by Belle E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
c'mon , you both are getting the same out of this , except you both dont want to admit it , but this is all cool , the door is open for if you need more commitment later on , the fact that he hasnt jumped your bones yet , means he has a lot of respect for you , and feels that there is enough potential to tag along , because he like your company , i expect at some stage you will both hit it off , but even if you dont , there is nothing wrong with this situation. this is purely just a sweet freindship which has the potential to turn into something more .. and you know it ..!
2007-03-06 00:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I vote NO. that is my tale, I actually were operating with this woman (she's 30 i'm 38) for nearly 4 yrs and for the first 2 a million/2 yrs I hit on her daily and when I gave up We became pals. She Calls me each evening for nearly a year now. i'm the perfect individual she talks to before she is going to sleep. I nevertheless am interested in her yet haven't any clue how she feels about me. i wish she receives a BF so she will be able to no longer call as to a lot, i love her as a pal yet to get this close is werid.
2016-10-17 10:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course guys and girls can just be friends, but what are you looking for? Are you interested in this guy? Many relationships start out being friends. I would say that if you are just coming out of a relationship, I would be careful because you don't want him to be a rebound. Just go with the flow and see what happens. Good Luck.
2007-03-06 00:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Belle:
I think you need to find out if you have feelings for this guy or not.
Guys hang out with girls for a myriad of reasons, but mostly they hang out for the prospect of having sex.
Sometimes men can be friends with a girl, but only if there is no attraction, or if there's no real chance of sex.
Otherwise, the guy is just waiting for his chance to give it to you.
If you like him, make a move, if you don't like him that way, then don't worry about it and enjoy the friendship.
2007-03-06 00:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally a guy will only spend a lot of time w/ a female if he's into her.Unless he's gay.There is that 1% of guys whose just hanging around with you because he enjoys your company.Its up tho you to decipher which one your Friend.
2007-03-06 00:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Y ask ME! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eventually it will be "friends with benefits" if it keeps continuing.
Otherwise I would say tone it down if it's not leading anywhere because you are not going to have time to meet someone special to have a relationship with if the majority of your time is being spent with a friend.
2007-03-07 09:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend is a guy, we see each every day and talk a lot on the phone. a lot of people may think this is wierd bt if you get on so well then why should it be!! if you can both have partners and still get on so well then dont ruin this friendship he is obviously your sole mate, they are hard to find so hang on to him!
2007-03-06 00:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by sexy nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, why not?
i truly believe in platonic friendship between opposite genders. but i have to admit that there are guys out there who only hang out with girls they're into.
2007-03-06 00:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well from my experience... The guy usually can't just be friends and tends to want benefits to go along.
2007-03-06 00:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea totaly. I have a lot of guy friends.
2007-03-06 00:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋