different religion??

Question

anybody has a b/f relationship who has a diff religion backgrd frm u? 3yrs plus we been 2gether.my in laws to be seem wans 2 separate both of us after they knew my religion.they still cant accept me.y? im sooo sad now coz bcoz of them i ended up quarrel with my b/f. he cares abt me but no matter wat they r still his parents..

im a muslim..my b/f is chinese..

we plan to settle down by end of tis years. i guess both of us r mature enuf to decide. my b/f is 29,n me 27..i known few pple who has same prob..i really envy like you guys can overcome it.

Answer 1

one real way to get rid of them is to accept them with their differences(not to be patience) y means when u accept u will find ways y they r reacting.when the problem is known one thing u can find solutions r u can be unaffected as u react r can be silent someway u respond then things will be easier.r very easy step find what their ego wants feed it.it has adverse effects as u stop feeding they become worst enemy.i think u just try it if it works go on.r else dont look for certificates from them as good.when u two have good understanding then nothing can stand between u two.

Answer 2

I'm agnostic-atheist and my boyfriend is Catholic. We had some arguments in the beginning about it, because it really bothered him that not only am I not Catholic, I don't believe in God at all. It's been almost 3 years and we are fine now. We just don't talk about it. Of course neither of our views have changed. I don't think his parents know that I am "atheist" because it's not something that I just discuss at the dinner table. I'm sure his mother would be disappointed, but I would hope that wouldn't change how she feels about me (which to my understanding is that she likes me). How old is your boyfriend? At some point, he needs to tell his parents to kiss off and let him deal with his own relationship issues. If HE has a problem with it, well so be it. But what his parents have to say about it shouldn't affect your relationship. Tell him to man up and make his own decision, and quit letting his parents wishes cloud his judgment.

Answer 3

That guy has to convert to Islam. Let that guy read and learn about Islam. And dont force him.

You can get those information and booklets on Islam in English language from a place in Geylang Serai. I am not sure abt the name of the building.

It has something to do with Muslim Converts.

Answer 4

My husband and I are of different religions. We have been married for 17 years. To be perfectly honest, it would be much easier if we were of the same faith, but we work at making it work. I wish we could go to church and worship together and I haven't given up hope that maybe some day he will go to church with me. I pray about it all the time, and I feel that God will bring him around in time, but for now we just have to keep working at it. Hope this helps you, and I wish you all the best.

God bless,
Stanbo

Answer 5

I was married to a muslim for 3 years and I am christian. No it does not work.

Answer 6

Chinese are VERY race oriented, especially with the boys. It probably has more to do with that than religion. You're AREN'T CHINESE MUSLIM, right?

Answer 7

The original, unchanged revelations given to Abraham and other prophets(like Moses and Jesus ) reaching back to Adam all came from the One True God(The Creator). This common origin explains their similarities in many beliefs and values


However, over time the teachings of the various religions, due to a variety of reasons, have become distorted and mixed with made-man ideas.


The last Prophet and Messenger of God, Muhammad , who is a direct descendant of Abraham through his first born son, Ishmael, was sent with the Last Guidance, Revelation and Testament, the Holy Qur'an(koran) to amend and correct the changes and corruption made to the the "Torah" which was sent to Moses and theTrue Gospel of Jesus.To say the truth ,God preserved all the other Holy Books plainly by preserving His Last Book the Holy Qur'an(koran)which contains the right and the truth of all that was changed in those other Books.


This is why this last Revelation which was sent 1423 years ago has remained unchanged, not even a word or a letter has been altered.


There is not even one word of difference between two Arabic Qur'ans, anywhere in the world. There has been no disagreements in history among Muslims as to what should and should not be in the Qur'an. However, in the case of the Bible, even the most ancient manuscripts conflict with one another so that no two are identical. Footnotes in all modern versions of the Bible prove this fact.


These revisions serve as concrete proofs that all the Biblical books are not at all divinely inspired. This is because it is beyond man's ability to correct the work of his Creator, who alone is Almighty and perfect



It was only natural for Almighty God to preserve the scripture revealed to Prophet Muhammad, because he was the last Prophet and Final Messenger of God.


Islam teaches us that we must pray directly to God without an intermediary and no soul can bear the burden of another and that the nature of humanity is good, and we did not inherit sin from Adam. Each soul comes into being free of sin.in Islam there are no priests or clergy -- each worshipper, man or woman, has a direct relationship with their Merciful Creator -- Almighty God. Since God is the Owner and Sustainer of everything, as well as the only one who can provide true and complete forgiveness, it is completely futile to try to approach Him through anyone else.


The oneness and universality of God's message requires that people accept all the messengers of God. Rejecting one of them amounts to rejecting them all. The Jews reject Jesus's mission and Muhammad's mission; the Christians reject Muhammad's mission; whereas the Muslims accept them all, but reject incorrect historical interpretations and human elements in these missions.


As the Qur'an is the final revelation and Muhammad is the final prophet, humanity is obligated to accept it: "If anyone desires a religion other than Islam, never will it be accepted of him; and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who have lost all spiritual good" (3:86).


The Final Prophet Muhammad said: "Whoever believes there is no god but God, alone without partner, that Muhammad is His messenger, that Jesus is messenger of God, and that Paradise and Hell are true, shall be received by God into Heaven."


you can do that now as you are reading these lines is to pronounce the two confirmations and attestations of faith, here it is




I BEAR WITNESS THAT THERE IS NO GOD WORTHY OF WORSHIP EXCEPT ALLAH ( ARABIC WORD MEANS ONE GOD-THE CREATOR). AND I BEAR WITNESS THAT MUHAMMAD IS HIS SERVANT AND MESSENGER. I BEAR WITNESS THAT JESUS IS HIS SERVANT AND MESSENGER.



The right picture of lslam is conveyed in the Qur'an, which is exemplified by Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him. The reality is that it is not fair to judge a religion by the actions of its followers alone because there are good and bad followers in every religion. The correct thing to do is to judge a religion by its documented revelation from God and the prophet who brought that revelation.

I encourage Christians and other religions to learn about Islam from Muslim sources and The Basis Of The Muslim Belief and not rely on second hand information which in many cases is distorted or contains a deep seated anti Muslim agenda. This is indeed a more scholarly approach


For more info


http://www.islamdoor.com

http://www.thetruereligion.org


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