We have been together almost 2 years. We get on really well but when it comes to S.E.X it is so boring and rare! Everything tickles or hurts - nohing feels good. It's making me start to miss my ex (we had a great lovelife and argued all the time!). If I don't fix this I can't stay with him as it is driving me mad - please help - it doesn't seem like such a big deal sometimes but other times it's all I can think about.
2007-03-06 00:37:56 · 7 answers · asked by typolisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Learn to masturbate and then do it in front of him/her.
Show him/her what you like.
2007-03-06 00:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you need to try some new things (roles plays, costumes, etc) to spice up your sex life or you are one of these freak women that like the "bad boy". If it's the latter go have sex and live a miserable life. Otherwise try talking to your b/f instead of us about improving your sex life. He may surprise you.
2007-03-06 08:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use those womanly powers to get him to "Think" of a new idea that you want to try. My wife does that stuff to me all the time and although I know she does it, I kinda like it.
2007-03-06 08:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very dirty and tell him in a very sexual way exactly what you want and dream about doing and having doneto you! I know i love it when a girl talks dirty to me. Gets me very turned on!
2007-03-06 08:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by The Answer Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They sell videos and books just for this problem. You need to spend time with your partner and talk to him about it.
2007-03-06 08:46:07 · answer #5 · answered by Someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have entire stores dedicated to this problem. Go visit one. Take him along.
2007-03-06 08:42:50 · answer #6 · answered by togashiyokuni2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something diff/ to get it pop'en in the bed, get a vibrator or some toy's you think both you guys will enjoy OR just try telling him what you want him to do to you while your having sex.........be more verable......... OR you get on top, take control and do it how you want it done
2007-03-06 08:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋