-is there a chance that he will change??
-does he love his partner that his cheating on or is he just with her for fun??
(by the way the guy is 19)
2007-03-06 00:37:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the girl is 14 they've known each other for about 6 years, she's in love with him, there parents know each other and his cheating on her (she's my friend)
2007-03-06 00:47:41 · update #1
first off he's 19 and she is 14? for one she should not be dating a guy that age........ and no he wont change, guy's like messing with younger females b/c little girls don't know the game, he's getting over on your friend and she need to date a guy on your level one that is maybe 14 or 15 years old. this 19 year old is above her level and that's why she getting played ,......... SHE GOT NO GAME!
2007-03-06 00:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by jazzy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do change. When I met my now husband he was 19. We dated for 2 years and a friend of mine saw him with another girl. We broke up and about 2 months later he was at my house begging me to take him back. 9 months later we were married and a baby on the way. We have been married now going on 7 years and he goes to work and back home to his family. He is only 27 years old........ So some guys do change for the one's they love. I think 1 reason men cheat is because they have fallen in love and they are scared... They want to try & make the felling go away by being with another girl. If they are truly in love though, they always come running back.
2007-03-06 08:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by escjmc2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He still needs time to grow......you shouldn't expect a 19 year old boy to be serious in a relationship although all young boys are not the same but right know he will continue to cheat until he grow up and learn how to become serious in a relationship remember that girl become mature faster that boys so he is still immature
2007-03-06 08:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are some of their reasons for cheating? 1. No longer feeling satisfied/stimulated in current relationship. Too cowardly to end relationship or is concerned about financial/living situation if they break up. 2. No longer interested in monogamy, likes various sex partners. 3. Craves the initial excitement and illicitness of a "secret" affair. 4. Needs to feel desired, and thinks current partner doesn't desire them.
Not all men cheat, though, so don't view every man as a potential cheater. You need to trust someone to have a good relationship, and remember that a cheater's actions are fully their responsibility.
2007-03-06 08:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by mother hen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is only 19 then he wont change for a while! Not till he is ready to settle down and even then they sometimes dont change. He likely doesnt love the partner he is with because if you love someone you dont go around hurting them!A woman is a fool if she thinks she can change a man!
2007-03-06 08:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey some guys don't love any of the girls but just want to have fun on the other hand some guys just cheat on their partners although they can love that person and don't ask me why. My friend does that
2007-03-06 08:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by clxgolf2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably is cheating for fun. He's young, and he loves his first partner, but when you're young, you tend to have more freedom, and take control of it, so he just cheated. Give him another chance. He might change. I think you should confront him about it and tell him that you don't like him cheating.
2007-03-06 08:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cheated with my girlfriend when I was 19. I did love her very much, but high teenage testosterone levels make fidelity very difficult for a 19 year old male.
Your safest course of action is to not get into a serious relationship with a man until he is well into his 20s. Realistically, men's libidos don't slow down until their early 30s.
2007-03-06 08:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a tough question. How long have you been together? There is a chance that he could be bored with the relationship. I know that it is hard, but you have to have trust. If there is no trust then there is no relationship. Who is the partner? Has he known her for a long time? It could be for fun, but depending on how long that you have been together and how long that he has known her there could be more to it. I hope that everything turns out the best for you.
2007-03-06 08:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only he knows his reasons. It's not a case of once a cheater always a cheater, but it's too soon to tell (he's 19) If you're the other girl, then walk away. If he loves you he'll come find you= after she's out of the picture. If you can wait, it's love. If not, then well... good luck to ya anyway!
2007-03-06 08:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋