I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half we are both very in love with each other . We are both in our forties . To make a long story short she had a brief fling with her sons married football coach about 4 months before I met her. My girlfriend was getting out of an ugly marriage then . After we have been dating for maybe a month she told me about the relationship and that the coach was still calling her trying to continue the relationship . I told her that she needed to make a decision and that she would have to choose me or him she said that she told me because she wanted him to leave her alone . She immediately called and told him she no longer wanted to have any contact with him because she had met somebody . The calls stopped and she said that if the calls would begin she would let me know and we can deal with it . No calls since and he was not coaching last season but I occasionally obsess that he will show up next season and try to hook up should I worry ?
2007-03-06 00:30:03 · 3 answers · asked by el diablo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...I guess I'd have to say that I would be absolutely somewhat cautious. Look at where this woman is just coming from reasonably too. An ugly marriage that was ending as you came into the picture,...would absolutely leave me wondering about all of her unfinished business. To be having an affair with her son's football coach, ...you know....the coach who is still married and cheating on his wife?...well you do the math partner. You're absolutely walking into complete dysfunction here dude. No one is thinking properly here in my book anyways. I'd take a huge step backwards and let everyone settle their own dust before proceeding further. This just simply looks like a very miserable pain-full accident waiting to happen. No wonder you're feeling extremely uncomfortable. I'd be feeling pretty darned uncomfortable too! Walk away from this situation quietly for right now dude. It would be the only sensible thing you can do for yourself right now. You'll be asking for huge difficulties if you don't. I don't try to pretend with anyone,...nor do I live in a mindset of denial. This has trouble written all over it dude. Let's hope you can see it too. Come out of the forest my friend,...and open up your mind and your eyes to this stuff going on here reasonably. I see pain misery and dysfunction partner. What do you see honestly?
2007-03-06 00:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it unless you notice something and trust me don't dewell on this cause it's going to put a strain on your relationship. Hey don't forget she picked you over the coach
2007-03-06 08:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by clxgolf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur normal
most people would feel that way
the human brain is a bugger like that
try not thinking about pink elephants when i say pink elephants - you can't. same stuff
sounds cool - just be cool like fonzie man!
2007-03-06 08:37:48 · answer #3 · answered by lowroad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋