Ok me an my ex broke up over 6 months ago naw.... im now with some one new, but i seem to think about her still...? we were together for four years.. i think that i still have some stuff i need to say to her...!? to get off my chest..she has contacted me a few times, wanting to be friends... she broke up with me, and hurt me really bad... WHAT DO I NEED TO DO.....???
2007-03-06 00:27:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you still love her?
Do you love this new girl?
Just say to your ex what you need to say if she has contacted you she wants to be more than friends i would say.
Never have any regrets say what needs to be said you might not get another chance
You need to think about what you want and nobody else so you dont get hurt again!!
Good Luck!!!!
2007-03-06 00:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get over the her the best way you know how and you shouldn't be in this new relationship because it seems like you rushed into it without thinking about what you were doing. Besides if you still think about her you and your new girl will have several problems because she'll know that your not giving her your all and she won't stick around if you still love her. So just relax and take all the time you need to clear your mind before you hurt the new girl like your ex hurt you.
2007-03-06 08:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants some kind of closure, and she just wants to make sure your ok from the breakup. Even though it was a long time ago, (that you broke up) you were together for 4 years. You may still be broken up, but she most likely still cares for you, and wants you to be in her life.
2007-03-06 08:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah like you said, you need to get it off your chest. If not to clear things up with your ex, then to give your current relationship a chance.
2007-03-06 08:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've gotta speak to her. Tell her what you need 2 say. It's ok to want to get stuff off ur chest. U just have to do it though.
2007-03-06 08:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bury what you have to say and forget her...Its over...let it be...You really have to get rid of all your feelings before you can talk to her...seems like she hurt you a lot and you might still be hurting...don't open up old wounds...good luck
2007-03-06 08:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her what you wanted to say... if it is bad... or demeaning... just write it in a letter and burn it... just don't let her know that you are struggling about it. let her see that you are better, because she made you one... show her that you are a man made of different stuff she can never have... forever... show her that you are the best thing in her life, but she can never have you anymore... just be friends... but be strong about it... let her go... if she returns then she has a problem... ;-)
2007-03-06 08:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by DEADPOOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and tell her you need to talk to her. i don't think it's worth asking her out again. just tell her what you need to tell her, just for the sake of yourself. i'm sure you'll feel much better afterwards.
2007-03-06 08:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by heartiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
re unite
2007-03-06 08:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by Caring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋