alright, me and a close guy friend of mine made this deal, that if im still a virgin in my late 20s, he will oblige me and well make love. He says that is just impossible, and denial of pleasure to my body.
He is known to be very very good in that department, he hasnt had lots of sexual partners, just loads of pratise-LOL, i trust him and everything. (got tested etc etc).
Its not like i dont have men interested in me, cause i do..my fair share-without sounding conseited (just that i havent gone all the way)
Would yall do this? What would u do with this opportuinity? Men would yall do this for a hot friend of urs?? Ladies would u do this for a hot virgin male friend of urs??? Opinions on what i should do?? back out now maybe, go ahead??
If u think im talking crap or writing this for kicks: dont ans.
2007-03-06 00:04:27 · 25 answers · asked by Phoenix21 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it really, really depends on what you want.
if it gets to a point where you just wanna do it, get it over with, and dont want it to be a one night stand with a stranger-then go for the friend.
if its something that may mean more to you, then hold out. when you find the person you want to do it with youll do it. theres no rush-no matter how old you are.
2007-03-06 00:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by cryingtree1979 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All he wants is to go Cherry Picking. Do not believe him as he is telling a lie to get what he wants. Wait until you get married IF you want RESPECT from your future husband, and some for YOURSELF also. Believe me once he gets what he wants and you have been defiled he will not stay around long and after the Lust wears off he will leave you and give you a very bad name and reputation. I AM A MAN so believe me when I say these things. I know what I am talking about and have been there and done that back in my STUPID YEARS when I was a teenager. I guess I am an 'ol foggy by kids standards as I am in my 50's.
2007-03-06 08:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that u should fell compfortable with ur self as a vigin but i am a male and all and if i was ur friend i would most likely do the samething he is doing but if i was him and had a g/f i wouldn't do it just be comfortable.
2007-03-06 08:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by redwrestlingblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants a free ride out of you.
Hes masking it by saying "your pleasure" and trying to make you believe its a bad thing to deny your body that.
CRAP men will say anything, they will feed you any line, and he is no different, regardless of whether your friends. Thats still bologna that hes feeding you.
I would NOT do that.
2007-03-06 08:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by Yentl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to sex few men would turn this down but since you want to make a circus out of your virginity i think you have issues that need to be addressed. you will lose something if you think this is just a casual thing..but guys do this all the time. you are thinking like a guy and that could be hurtful to you in the future
2007-03-06 08:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not consider it. I've had many women tell me that their first time was a mistake and they should have waited for the right guy. If you go thru with it lots of luck, but consider what it might possibly do to your friendship with this guy.
2007-03-06 08:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ewww!! i imagined myself making love with my bestfriend, and i know he's hot! but no!! i love him as a friend but not as a sexual partner.. that'll totally ruin the good friendship and it wouldn't feel good. If i were you, find someone you really love, wait for it, and while waiting, enjoy the feeling of being virgin.
2007-03-06 08:11:27 · answer #7 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has most to do with most mens perverted reasons for wanting to virgins.
You say 'He will oblige you"?? As if he is going you a favor. OH MY GOD!!!
You also say he says you shouldn't "denial of pleasure to my body"? again OH MY GOD!!!
Tell your friend to jump in a lake....!!
2007-03-06 08:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totaly. Girls don't need sex 2 pull them through. Do that deal. Besides, if he's hot, it's better 2 lose ur virginity 2 a hot friend than a hot dude who could dump u!!!! I would do it :)
2007-03-06 08:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sweetheart i lost my virginaty already and im only 13, it felt amazing, but now i wish id weighted till i found the man i love and wanted to marry, hold on to that preciouse gift, you can only have one virginaty, so dont make the mistake i made and throw it at any fit lad that comes along
2007-03-06 08:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by love_me_im_sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋