I asked him to move out because of his relationship with a girl 15 years younger then him and he left a good portion of his stuff behind and wont get it because he is trying to force me to take him back. I wont be doing that, I have moved on.
2007-03-06 00:01:41 · 7 answers · asked by kat f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
put it outside by the street and make sure he knows what days the garbage truck comes.
2007-03-06 00:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by cryingtree1979 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make reasonable advances to giving him his belongings back. Make sure you also document every chance you give him. Call him maybe on a cell phone with voice recorder and tape the conversation you have. Bring up specifically what you still have at your place and give him a deadline to put it up. 30 days should be enough. You can also put all the belongings in a self storage unit and only pay for a month's worth of storage. Again let him know and let the owner of the storage know that this is his stuff. Document everything that was put in because if he doesn't come and get it or you stop paying for it, the stuff will get auctioned off and you troubles along with it.
2007-03-06 00:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by GirlsDeadMonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would check with your state law concerning this one. In some states its a year others six months after that deadline you can dispose of them as you wish.
2007-03-06 00:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by idak13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you're not married........and you have possession over the stuff......and he left it there....and you didn't steal it....and he can't prove it's his....
then, give him a date..write him a letter ( yes, a regular letter in the mail, return receipt requested )..and tell him everything will be at the curb...if he wants it, he should come and get it...if he doesn't get it.....someone else will.....you will not be held responsible for anything he claims to be his after that date.
and then, stick to your guns.
2007-03-06 00:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Campbell Gramma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw it out. If he's not coming 2 get it, then it's gone. Or, if ur a gentler soul, mail it all 2 him. Just don't take it back.
2007-03-06 00:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have a yard sale. or take some pictures of his stuff and put it on craigslist.com You might as well make some money off of this idiot.
2007-03-06 00:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no legal law..just a moral law to do the right thing..ask one of his friends or relatives to get his stuff if he can/t or won/t..but at least try to get the stuff back in a short time...if they won't..pitch it
2007-03-06 00:06:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋