14.00 He decided he wasn't going to drink that night, as we were to have a constructive Sunday. I decided to join him and not drink.
19.30 He rang and asked "Can you pick me up from the pub around the corner from my house?"
20.30 I drove us to his friends birthday party. He got drunk.
22.30 I expressed an interest in going home. "Do you want to come or stay and get a taxi back to mine later?" He said "I'll come with you".
23.00 "I'm really tired and my shoulder hurts. Shall we go when you've finished that quarter of a pint?" He said "Yes, but it's going to take a while to say my goodbyes".
23.30 "Can we go please?" He said "Yes, just five minutes".
23.35 "Can we go now?" He said "Just two minutes".
23.40 "I'm going now if you still want to come". He said "OK".
23.45 "I'm leaving now, as I have been waiting for you for 45 minutes. Bye" and left.
23.49 We argue in the car, as he doesn't see what the problem is.
2007-03-06 00:00:03 · 20 answers · asked by Small Claims 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he was inconsiderate. The problem is, as a man, he really doesn't see anything wrong with what happened. The thing about it is that guys thinking is fundamentally different from women. (Thank God for small favors!) In his eyes, you guys were having fun hanging with his friends. In our eyes, he was being a jerk and getting drunk with his buddies (after you both agreed not to drink!) while you hung around waiting to be his designated driver!!! My suggestion is to explain to him that it upsets you when he doesn't stick to his word. And next time, you leave when you are good and ready, let his @ss take a cab home, and lock the bedroom door so he can sleep on the couch, he will get the hint. If he doesn't then he is too stupid for you anyways.
2007-03-06 00:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by spoiledrottenchica1987 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So once you went for a lie down what grew to become into your boyfriend meant to do? sit down there and be bored? jointly as on holiday? this is slightly thoughtless of you do no longer you think of? You grew to become into puking? You wasn't in basic terms feeling slightly tough? Omg great deal!
2016-09-30 06:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by barile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest he is being a typical man, inconsiderate and only thinking of himself, next time just leave him there and dont wait for him, that is what I would do... hopefully it is a long walk home...
2007-03-06 00:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is for sure, when you are firm about something and let the other person that you mean it, no one will take you for a 'ride' like that. So next time he tries to do something like that to you, just put your foot down!
2007-03-06 00:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Olga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even if we say he was, you would not make a problem out of it??? I think it is not too serious to ba a big problem, especially as he was drunk. If it happens regularly - tell him that it disturbs you.
i agree with other opinion - it is in a man-style.
Good luck!
2007-03-06 00:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should have just gone home a lot earlier?
and as for logging down all of the times next to events im sorry but you sound like a stalker
you obviously didnt want to go out that night but felt the need to keep tabs on him
so what if he wanted a drink
i find i worse that you spent all your time out noting the time than having a good time yourself
2007-03-06 00:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow ur lucky u even got him in the car my bloke just storms off ina stress if i leave and txt's me goin ahh im walkin home dont bother about me if im killed its ur fault!! Men hey! get used to it ive been dealin with it for 3 yrs its the same most weekends lol next time ur out keep him waitin see how he feels then i do it shoppin for clothes :D
2007-03-06 00:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a jerk and sounds like my ex only wants u when there is not drink and his friends around from now on dont take s*it from him tell him how u feel if he does not understand he never will so get out
2007-03-06 00:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by zendafranklin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep - inconsiderate! you should have just left him there - it pisses me off when men carry on like that - its like we have nothing better to do than stand around waiting for them - my ex was like that - he tried it one too many times though - treating me like a taxi driver - he did it once to often though - hence the fact hes now an ex!
xx
2007-03-06 00:56:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha, that is so incredibly typical! The funny thing is that he probably will not even realise that he is being inconsiderate. Better just mope untill he buys you a gift to make up, hehe.
2007-03-06 00:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋