I've met my work colleague's(who is male) female mate a few times. Everytime I see her, she seems very happy to see me, buys me a drink and we get on very well.
On our last group night out, she kept trying to get me to dance, grabbing my hand whenever she had an opportunity and also kept trying to take photo's of me (alone). Her boyfriend was out that night and he kept giving me 'dirty' looks whenever she spoke to me. He sometimes went up to her when she was dancing nxt to me - think he was trying to tell me something!!!
I didn't try anything that evening, wouldn't even think about it! I asked for her number towards the end of the night-she said she has a boyfriend(which I knew).I said it don't matter,I'm only asking for your number.She then just typed it in ASAP after that!
Does she possibly fancy me??? Why she give her number to me if she has a BF???Should I txt her???
p.s. I only asked for the number to see if she'll give it to me....
2007-03-05 23:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Asking for her number directly is not tricking her.....
2007-03-06 00:09:51 · update #1
eer, am I missing something here? You tricked her into giving you her number!
You said that it didn't matter its only your number, it doesn't matter that you have a boyfriend. Then you come on here saying that she must be interested because she gave it to you!
It sounds as though she either really finds you attractive, or she finds you very interesting or funny, or she was trying to make her boyfriend jelious, or her favourite thing to do is wind up as many men as possible. Who knows!
The best you can do is say, if you weren't with your boyfriend I'd be all over you. Then wait to see if she ends it with him. Place the ball in her court.
2007-03-06 00:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be perfectly honest mate I would personnaly steer clear!! She is the one playing with fire, not you. If she has a boyfriend then you are right, why would she want to give you her number? I reckon she is just a flirt and even if she does fancey you then you would be playing with danger if you started texting/phoning!!
Trust me, you could probably get anyone, so do yourself a huge favour and look for someone unattached! There is absolutely no harm in being friends with anyone of any sex, however, this to me does not seem to be her motive! And, put yourself in her boyfriends position. would you like it if you were him??
All the best, hope you get the person you deserve.xx
2007-03-06 00:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jaksi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you even bothering with her - shes unavailable!! How would you like to be in her boyfriends shoes?? Also - just think - if you did end up with her - whats stopping her from doing the exact same thing on nights out with other guys - remember what goes around comes around!
It sounds like shes a bit of a flirt - leading guys on just for the sake of it - shes a bit of a prick tease - I wouldnt was my time even contacting her as chances are you'll be the one made fun of when she tells everyone how she could have had you - even though shes probably not interested - some girls play these games to keep their boyfriends on their toes as well. From the getgo - this one sounds like trouble - stay well clear and find yourself an available woman!
xx
2007-03-06 02:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked for the number and she gave it to you. You are problably reading more into it
2007-03-06 00:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Olga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does like you, hmm... question is are you going to do anything about it. if its your work mates girl..... hmm... problems will arise if you break them up! good luck
2007-03-06 00:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by sprite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ring her and see, cant do any harm
2007-03-05 23:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants u... bad
lol
go get her
2007-03-05 23:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol is this some joke ?
2007-03-05 23:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋