my gf split with me yesterday after 8 weeks. she says she wants to be friends with me because we argue all the time. we work togeather, when i see her at work her work mates spread stuff about us and give me dirty looks which makes me get paranoid and i end up arguing with my gf for stupid reason so its my fault why she split with me. When she split with me yesterday i asked her are we still going to txt and ring each other and she said yes and she wud also meet me once a week. i ring and txt my ex alot which i need to stop but dont know how. she was supposed to meet me today and cancelled cos she said she wasnt feeling too good. so we rearranged to meet friday evening and she swore on her mums life that she sill has feelings for me and likes me and is willing to make things work. what do i do ? how can i get her back ??? i like her to bits what should i do i miss her, i treated her like a princess when i was with her. how can i make her chase me back? outside work we used w be perfect
2007-03-05 23:51:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deal with your paranoia-talk through the issues and you'll get her back!!!
Do a romantic gesture also........e.g. flowers, a picnic....
2007-03-05 23:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you have broke up with your G.F the best thing to do is play her at her own game and do as she asks.
Because if you play it cool then she will wonder what the hell is going on. Women always play opposites and I should know because I am one
If I'm arguing with my B.F I will always go opposite to what he asks.
Just stay cool and don't keep asking her to get back with you.
And if this doesn't work then I'm sorry shes not worth it.
2007-03-06 00:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you should calm yourself... that way you will think straight and act wisely. And then open your heart to your beloved telling her that you have realised how important she has been in your life but you must make it simple mate.... and she may feel moved and who knows she might pull something out of the hat :)
BLE$$
2007-03-06 00:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by black pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its difficult working with a b/f or g/f sometimes its good to put the two separate....change jobs if you can and play hard to get if she still has feelings for you let her do the chasing!!!!!
2007-03-06 00:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by friendlyeasterbunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stay away from her for a given time period. she needs time to sort things out and you should go on with your life as well.
that way you would have given yourselves time to cool off and get a fresh outlook...time is on your side..just try not to be so much in a hurry.
2007-03-05 23:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a lost cause to me...sorry mate!
2007-03-05 23:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if i was you i would for get about her and try and get on with your life i know its hard but you will feel better for it
2007-03-06 00:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seem.s you do all the work in the relationship.and this is where it has gotten you.for your own self; move on.
2007-03-06 00:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up,dust yourself down,and start all over again.
2007-03-06 00:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by wozza.lad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her that you will not get jealous at work...I think this is what bothers her
2007-03-06 00:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋