what should i do?

Question

im 17 and last month i woke up and had very ugly wrinkles under my eyes also there kinda sunkin in but not really. I've been taking this reallly hard every day i cry my self to sleep. im too young for this. i even thought about suicide. i thought about plastic surgery but i would have too wait like 5 years to save the money and i don't even know if they could help me...and i don't know if there a good surgen or some who will hack up my face...i don't know what to do...i really need some advice

Answer 1

O my goodness, just for a small thing you thinking of suicide very strange & also a very bad thought never even dream about suicide. I feel consult a Skin Specialist Doctor.
Do not go for surgery, as there are more ill effects than good ones.
Keep washing your face at least every 3-4 hrs in a day, drink as much as water you can, take good sleep for around 7-8 hrs & do not keep awake late night, & every day when you get up & before going to bed, “Keep ice cubes on your eyes & under the eyes”. If possible keep round cut cucumber on the black spots under your eyes every day or alternate days.
But this is going to give you some good effects after a month or so. I am sure you will start looking cool & please relax there are so ugly people, after seeing them you feel like vomiting, but too these ugly people live.

Answer 2

Are these wrinkles accompanied by puffy bags? If so then you can relax, your skin isn't REALLY wrinkled, you've got bags under your eyes for some reason. Since they appeared one morning you're probably allergic to something. A lot of crying will also cause some pretty puffy eyes.
I get really ugly wrinkles and bags under my eyes when my cat sleeps near my face - because I'm allergic to cats. I also look like a mess if I've cried myself to sleep.

With either puffiness or wrinkles you should be using a high quality eye cream as part of your daily skin care regimen. I recommend products from Arbonne (I'm a consultant, but I use them & love the products, that's why I started selling them.) Arbonne products are all natural and never tested on animals.
We have two lines of skin care products that you may be interested in. The first is the Intelligence line; it has a great eye cream that I use every day. It makes my eyes feel "firmer." The intelligence line is for younger skin, or sensitive skin. It moisturizes and helps promote younger looking skin.
The second line is the anti-aging line of products, NutraminC RE9. These products are packed with vitamin C and help reverse signs of aging. There is an anti-wrinkle eye cream in this set too.
If you are interested in trying the products a local consultant will be able to help you decide which product is better for you, and is able to provide you with a set of samples to try before you buy the products. If you can't find a consultant you can email me through Yahoo!Answers and I will help you find one, or help you get the products/samples you're interested in.

You can also go to a local drug store and look for any product that is specifically designed for use around the eyes. Do not use a moisturizer designed for the rest of your face on your eyes - that can cause puffiness and bags under your eyes.


If you don't have any puffiness and you've just got wrinkles it seems unusual that they would just appear, and very unusual for someone so young to have them. (Don't be offended, as far as skin is concerned 17 is young.) If you're really worried, and don't want to wait and see how over the counter stuff works for you, you may want to see a dermatologist. She may have an Rx to help you, though I'm not sure what it would be.

Answer 3

17 is very young to have actual, permanent wrinkles; but if you're crying yourself to sleep and stressed out, you'll only exacerbate the situation.

Get hydrated, drink lots of water. Try to sleep on your back, face up as often as you can, and I think you'll be surprised the way the wrinkles will disappear.

Go see a dermatologist as soon as possible, call for an appointment today! If you actually do have problems with wrinkling or 'sunken' areas under your eyes, the dermatologist will be able to diagnose and treat your symptoms.

Then seek counseling! If you're thinking about suicide and plastic surgery, drastic reactions to what is most likely a temporary problem, you need someone to help you get things in perspective.

The relief you'll feel once you've actually taken reasonable steps to alleviate your problems will make you glad you did, and the stress will begin to melt away almost immediately!

Best of luck to you!!!

Answer 4

I am really sorry to hear that. I think there's something that's bothering you and you're stressing over it. If you can, try not to think about it and talk it over with your parents or a trusted person (older). You might not be getting enough sleep, so try to get more sleep. And don't forget, you're not alone with this problem. In my opinion, suicide isn't the answer.

They sell creams against wrinkles in stores; try to use those. Good luck!

Answer 5

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Answer 6

my dear tommy: I just read your question, my dear, you are so young, when your 17 every little thing is wrong, especially in this fake superficial society. dont do anything about your young pretty face, ask your mom (if you have one) i never did, i was much like you, and now i am modelling parttime, I used to think i was very ugly when i was 17 because i went to an agency when i was living in a little town, and they said I am too ethnic, now women try to look ethnic like me, my features are in now now i am 32, naturally big lips hi cheek bones almond eyes golden skin,,,, everything this stupid society and media protrays. my dear, you are so young to worry about these things..I would never or have never thought about getting rid the wrinkle in my eye , it is my life experience , I have earned it it is part of me.
wait a while, do other things with yourself than worry about features and skin and hair. give yourself facial once a week, do your own nails toes too, take long smelly good baths if you have time, get lots of rest, visit a hospital were they are children less fortunate than you help them , be their friends, some have no food to eat, or no parents, or bigger problems.
find lots of friends like yourself and happier, do nice things for them, keep them if there are positive toward you, lose them if they not. talk to an smart REAL adult who does not visit a cosmo doctor every 3 months... who is a real woman with wrinkle and confident to give you advice.
I think you should stay away from doctors of surgeons style, and get help with your style of thinking, dont do surgery, if you do, you might lose your real you, become like brittney spears who has done her nose eyes, boobs... she was only 17 to do all that.
wait a few years.. and then think about it. wrinkles is only bad in this side of the world, in europe it is natural. and women are much more confident. dont watch tv , it is this hollywood bs that make us crazy about everylittle thing on our appearances.
save that money go on trip to a place you never been, look at kids at your age how they live.
ps. if you still want to take the superficial advice and fix things, go see a therapist first, because i worked before for a cosmetic surgeons as a esthetician, if he saw that you were doing this to combat your depression.. he would tell you.. it is not right for you at this time to go ahead with any type of plastic surgery, and he would refer you to a therapist. it is your choice. i know you are smart but wait a year or two, see a therapist if things are really bad. go on a trip with a very good friend or family. see this world. try to change and get your mind of a stupid little wrinkle. work on keeping yourself happy in your mind , your spirit.the real you inside. turn of the tv and read about things you dont know.make real friends. good luck.