I've been dating him for over 2 years now, and they broke over 3 years ago. He was honest with me, (after I saw a text message she sent him), and told me that he called her just to say hi. I trust our relationship, and I think he loves me. What really bothers me if that when I asked him if he told her that he has a girlfriend (me), he told me that he didn't tell her because they didn't really talked that much. I haven't asked him about her anymore, even though I feel tempted to ask him if he called her again, or if she called him. He says that he realized after talking to her how much he loves me, and that she is the DEVIL. Should I trust him totally? I did it with my ex-husband, and now he is living with his ex-girlfriend. I love my BF a lot, and he treats me very well, I have no complaints, so far...He says that he is totally over her, but I'm under the impression that she might try to keep contacting him because she is now divorced! I'm 45 years old and he is 51.
2007-03-05 23:37:46 · 9 answers · asked by PRLadyDama 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're in the process of buying a house, and moving in together.
2007-03-05 23:38:32 · update #1
I'm a 51 Year-Old Man. And I wouldn't talk to any of my past "Problems". I'd say, have a good, heart-to-heart on what he wants out of the Relationship. And ask him to explain Respect! And Disrespect, as well.
2007-03-05 23:45:04 · answer #1 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Hun :) you're real, it isn't the tip of the worldwide. I in certainty have been given rejected on Valentines Day. that's ok nevertheless, as a results of fact we've plenty time. And it fairly isn't undesirable in any respect. existence is to short to revolve around stupid adult men.
2016-10-02 11:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, u re so old. should your man grow up finally? i thought at the age of 50 people are considered being adults. i say if your man didn't have feelings for his ex he would n't call her. neither would he be thinking of her. i have ex husband. i never call him and never even think of him. even we have kids together. my new husband has ex wife. never ever he calls her, even they have children together. so i say normally, if a man loves u and cares of u he would never call his ex. if she called him he should have told he had a new gf - u. but of course, who am i to advice? I am only 37. but my hubby is 50. i always considered him a grown up. this was why i have chosen that old man on the first place
2007-03-05 23:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely hold off on this house buying. Sounds like he needs one in the corner. If it is just her calling him there isn't much you can do about it except change phone numbers.
2007-03-05 23:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really say. Just watch out for her. Or she just wants to be friends with him Not saying he is old but at that age little is left undone. I don't think he will be stupid anyway.
2007-03-05 23:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really are too old to be worring about such things. men have to sometime reach an age where they are matrue and dont do things such as cheat and such. If your bf is not matrue enough, its really not a conducive relationship. If he is mature, then i wouldnt worry too much if i were you.
2007-03-05 23:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Joey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank God u said girlfriend and not 'girlenemy'. at 45, u r old enough to believe in ur man. dont make im a public enemy because he is ur friend. believe he can handle issues.
2007-03-06 00:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Na u sabi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He seems really loves you but she want to stick on him, that's normal.
But have you realized that he is too old to be loved recently?
2007-03-05 23:44:24 · answer #8 · answered by Laith Attar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible, but not probable.
2007-03-05 23:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋