I meet a guy 2 months ago and I like him a lot. He used to be very much into me, but when i got a bit "hormonal" and became a bit needy and girly he started to pull away. Now he contacts me (instead of every day) once every 4 -5 days, and most of the times
he just finds out how I am doing and thats it... We used to see each other twice a week and he was always initiating it, now suddenly he doesn't sound all that interested... I haven't seeing him for 2 weeks, and he called me just to say he can't see me today, can't see me tomorrow but wants to meet on thirsday?
I don't understand him, when the guy is so cold and distant in terms of meeting up, how should i treat this relationship?
Or am I just being unreasonable and girly - but hey, I haven't had sex in two weeks now because of his procrastinations...
Guys when and if i see him on thirsday how shall I act?
2007-03-05 23:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Rita B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
act friendly, pleased to see him, but not needy, he may just want friendship now
2007-03-06 02:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act like you are too into him because it'll look bad and he may find you a bit desperate, just play it cool dont give too much away about your feelings.. If he really likes you he'll come to you if not then maybe it is not meant to be.
Act how you would normally act with him though.
2007-03-05 23:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by EmilyLouise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act pretty much as you would normally act, but be mature enough to understand that he isn't worth it, in fact, I would be cold to him to see his reaction to that!
Then if he calls again and says this is So and so, just ask so and so who?
This will either make him think or leave you alone, which is just what you need!
2007-03-05 23:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes only meeting up wiv yoo for sex? when ye meet him on thursday,keep yer legs crossed?lol, i probably think that really deep down hes not too interested in you? but enjoys the sexi stuff?lol, he would be taking you out a lot more often and in touch more if it was any kind of decent relationship, you should maybe jist put this one down ti experience? and move on, take care,
2007-03-06 03:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by derek336170 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try acting grown up and ask him what the problem is ,then if you're not satisfied with his answer leave him to play his mind game elsewhere. But perhaps he thinks it's you who's playing the mind game. Either way, one of you has to be mature enough to sort it out or walk away
2007-03-06 00:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by fatles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's only using you and wants to see if you can be his booty call. i suggest you find another guy that will treat you consistently if not better as you get to know each other more. he only stopped being the 'initiator' of the relationship because he knows you'll still be there and its no longer a 'challenge' to be with you. i suggest you leave him, but thats just me.
2007-03-05 23:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Wilson J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's point of view you ruined his 'chase' and thrust yourself on a plate for him. Men don't find that attractive. It's what they can't have, that they want. You should have played it cooler than that. I expect you've fluffed it with this one but make yourself less easily available for the next one.
2007-03-05 23:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Angelfish 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's just playing it cool. It doesn't mean he's not into you, just taking his time. When you meet up next, just be yourself.
2007-03-05 23:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take good care of you and dont be a fool
2007-03-06 01:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by anis118030 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋