I have a girl who lives with me as a lodger,there is a 10 year age gap between us.Since she moved in we totally hit it off.We spend all of our spare time 2gether,goin out,2C my family,drink,shops,walks in the countryside etc.We argue like anything but also have so many things we get on with 2gether.I really do like this girl,so much.We constantly touch each other,hands over each other faces,biting my fingers n vice versa,leave little notes n messages all over house 4 each other.Sing love songs 2gether.Now u think this would indicate she likes me,but is this just as a m8?What should I do? I know she tells me sometimes about people she fancies,& she knows about a girl I had feeling for a year ago I thinks I still have which I don't.I want this girl, it is tearing me apart being with her everyday but not being with her.Every1 who sees us 2gether thinks we r a couple n say we are suited.Girls! Help....U can understand the difficulty living 2gether if it goes wrong.
2007-03-05 23:34:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the responses so far! More appriciated, looks like I have a lot to think about.
2007-03-06 00:54:54 · update #1
1. ask her straight.
2007-03-05 23:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a deep breath, and just tell her how you feel, rather than tryin to second guess what ever gesture, look or activity COULD mean. I no because she is your lodger it could make things uncomfortable, but it sounds like u get on well, and have a very strong friendship, which even if she doesnt feel the same your be able to survive it. You seem perfect :D
2007-03-05 23:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Siany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say go for it!
But, when i rented a room in a house, i ended up falling for a guy that rented another room, it all went totally wrong as we were living with each other from the word go, so be sensible about it, tell her how you feel, and see what she says!
You can't go on like this!!
2007-03-09 23:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day, when things seem at their more cozy and intimate, say, sort of out of the clear blue sky...something like; "you know...I wonder why it is that we've never gotten together...? It would seem so natural, I can't believe we've never thought of it...how do you feel about that...?"
Then let her open the door wider...or slam it shut.
But at least you'll know. And I'm sure you'll be in the sack before an hour's up.
2007-03-05 23:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell her that u really like her and c what she says because if u jus make a move then it could upset her jus ask her about how she feels about u ? if she says she really dus ike u then go 4 it ask her to get with u but if she says she likes u and that ur her best m8 dont try anything else but to b best m8s with her :D good luck :D:D
2007-03-05 23:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10 year age gap doesn't mean anything. Unless you're something like 23 and she's 13 but I'm assuming you're both adults...
She certainly seems to like you....I'd tell her how you feel! Trust the vibe you get when you're with her. In my experience, it's usually pretty obvious when someone likes you in 'that' way! Good luck!
2007-03-05 23:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by flowerpot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It might look that she likes you-most probably does!BUT be warned that she might not want to RISK THE FRIENDSHIP if it doesn't work out!She'd rather have you as a friend then lose you completly!!!
Also she might like everything about you, but not be sexually attracted to you!!!!
Besty way to know is talk to her about it, but you might be opening up a whole can of worms that might damage your friendship for GOOD!
2007-03-06 00:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before this gets anymore confusing for either of you sit her down and talk to her. You are an adult act like it. Some times life is difficult no matter what we do.
2007-03-05 23:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you have been enjoying the touching and biting, why don't you enjoy having a good conversation with her.
Communication verbally is what is needed.
Tell her you are attracted to her and want to be with her. Find out how she feels by asking her.
It is quite simple... you don't have a crystal ball... talk to her........
2007-03-05 23:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, tricky one. But you only live once. Life's too short to miss an opportunity like this (woah, check out those cliches!) Ask her if she'd like to take things further - if she says no, you've lost nothing. Good luck x
2007-03-05 23:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Away With The Fairies 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
age doesn't matter! anyway, they say both of you are suited to each other..
have a good conversation with her...tell you true feelings to her..
it will lighten you up!
2007-03-05 23:43:25 · answer #11 · answered by cLAirE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋