Me and my man get on great when we are together, he sometimes thinks im a bit pessimistic but apart from that everything is perfect. Only its not when we drink. Every single time we get drunk together, we argue. When we first met months ago we didn't, why now? We have both had pretty bad relationships before we met. And im thinking maybe we need counselling, any suggestions apart from dont drink. ?
2007-03-05 23:30:52 · 14 answers · asked by wonder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you have issues that are not being resolved or discussed when you are sober...only when your inhibitions are down do you feel ok to discuss and then argue. Improve your communication with each other...sober and perhaps it will change. good luck
2007-03-05 23:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time you met and when you drank together there was nothing you know about each other to argue whereas now both of you know each other and while sober you hide your feelings which are let loose while you are drunk that all . This is all in the game in fact this would help both of you to understand each other better and then both of you could have a committment that you will stay together inspite of facing both known and unknown hurdles throughout your life and thats all to do you can get settled in life.
2007-03-05 23:41:23 · answer #2 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like y'all really need to talk to someone because obviously both of you probably really have things that y'all really want to say to each other but it only comes out when y'all are drinking which intensifies things and makes it worse. Good Luck!
2007-03-05 23:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to AA and read the big book..
one or both of you have a problem with alcohol and sooner or later you will have a serious problem that will lead to death,insanity, or sobriety..its up to you to pick the course you want to end up on
you can either face your problem that you have a problem or go into denial..
if you see smoke there is usually fire..get help soon..
2007-03-05 23:37:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking doesn't make people aggressive it just impairs your ability to make good judgements. Wow that was a serious answer from me! Hope you like it.
2007-03-05 23:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by fatherf.lotski 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. drinking makes ur mind lose, thats why u r arguing like that. better drink and have sex then there wont be any arguement.
2007-03-05 23:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're just both mean drunks. if you don't want to accept the obvious solution then tough cookies. if I was a counselor and you came to me with this problem I'd laugh you out of my office.
2007-03-05 23:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
just don't get drunk together again....what the hell you need to go to counseling for that
2007-03-05 23:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t talk about topics whcih can go into an argument..nor react to such topics if the other person brings up.
2007-03-05 23:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by G C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuz when u drink THE REAL YOU starts to come out and you can't control urself and you speak your mind and ur feelings
2007-03-05 23:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by LUCERO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋