ok hes going to jail for being done with drugs and dont get the wrong idea hes just in a stuffed up time at the moment hes not a junki so any way everyone tells me to leav him but i cant i love him and want to help him but he wont let me and if i did leav him i would not stop loving him i would just miss him and i am his girlfriend i am suppose to be there for him through these things arnt i??????????????????
2007-03-05 23:29:23 · 10 answers · asked by holden hunni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You won't have to break up with him. The bars and barbed wire may do it for you.
No, the love doesn't just go away - if it did, he wouldn't be trying to push you away. He cares. He knows what it means. And yes, loving someone means loving them when its the worst of times. Loving them when they make bad choices. Loving them when they are not even loving themselves.
He'll be very lucky if you're still there when he is released - it's quite difficult to get back on one's feet after such an ordeal. It can help his outlook a thousand times over knowing he has a place to go and someone looking forward to his return.
Good luck to you both.
2007-03-05 23:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 07:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister in law had a situation like this. Her housbad went to jail 1 month after they got married, in top of this she was pregnat.
He was in prison for 3 years and she waited for all that time, working 2 jobs and heaving a really hard time by her self. In all these 3 years she never dated no one. It was just her and her son. After he came out of jail, it wasn't the same. She had high hopes and all of these just vanish. 2 months after he got out she left him. she ralized that he was someone that was not going to change. Now this just her case, I'm not sure what you should do but think about it really good.
Excuse for my poor inglish but I'm not 100% fluent.
take care and I hope that whatever you decide it works you!!
GP
Mexico....
2007-03-05 23:44:23 · answer #3 · answered by gasparin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 the bad ones mostly bring you to their level not them to yours.
#2 He is typical criminal minded dude. He knows you will be there no matter what and he is taking advantage of it.
#3 Stop with the freaking drama performance!!!
get a revelation! He is a stoner loser, yeah times may be tough
but their is more to the story than what your telling and maybe what you even know!
so do yourself a favor and move on
2007-03-05 23:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you even listening to yourself?So you seriously wanna tell people the love of your life is in jail? You should leave him and move on or call it quits till he comes out. Youre not his wife so you dont HAVE to stay!
2007-03-05 23:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think with your heart and do what you want, but remember that everyone is only saying that you should leave him cos they love and care about you. This is a hard decision but only you can make try not to let too any ppl influence you in this decision.
2007-03-05 23:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never leave him, u were the best person who could have avoided him going to jail....since u did nothing to do that atleast be with him, take him on the good path...
2007-03-05 23:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by G C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he dosent sound like good material to me. but if you still want him, stand by his side and make sure he dosent do the same mistake twice. show him the right path and you'll both be happy.
unless he dumps you or vice versa
2007-03-05 23:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by getting_bored 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him to come out from jail..legaly...once he comes ou t ask him...he should not do those mistake once agian..if he agress continue ur friship..
-haahhaa
2007-03-05 23:35:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok, he'll do fine,and you can practise for the future, ore jail time is a certain.
2007-03-05 23:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋