I ask that because after reading these questions here its like all "love" is or "relationships" are just consist of going places (usually a man pays for you, Not Always but sure does a lot) and that you have sex. Sex, sex and more sex. Its like its wrong to wait for that true love and only be with them. Doesnt it seem to devalue you when you give it up in each relationship? Most men and sadly some women, are into using people for their physical desires and thats it and thats what motivates them and drives them and gives them purpose. I understand, but dont understand it, that mostly you ladies really "love" him and thats why its ok but wheres some restraint? why cant the body be told no and wait? is Love just about the sex? just wondering.
2007-03-05 23:22:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm... honestly, its natural for women to want physical intimacy from someone with whom they have emotional intimacy, however, i do believe that real love means thinking about what's best for the other person especially in the long run. because of that i don't equate love with sex. sex is a part of love (within marriage), but love is not all about sex. for me, sex affirms the commitment between a man and a woman (take note: COMMITMENT) plus its for procreation not just recreation. in one sentence here's what i think: to wait for someone/something is to make someone/something worth waiting for.
2007-03-06 00:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by jini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I value myself and I haven't done anything to that extent and would never. Sure if I've been in a relationship for a while and had strong feelings for the other person I would consider having sex with them. But, I feel that sex is something important to be shared between two people who love each other. I don't think it's something that you should be doing with someone you just met at a bar I find that udderly disgusting. I do agree with you that some people don't value sex they simple think of it as basically just a kiss. I mean we all have urges but you have to let your morals control those urges.
2007-03-06 07:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your absolutley right...in one perspective. But look at it this way: It's 2007. Sex is just Sex. Look at most men- They can manipulate almost any girl to get him laid..right?? Most men just want sex and nothing more...but where do the women stand?? They stand alone because if they go out and have casual sex like a man does then she would be called a 'slut.' But women can and should do go out and have "fun" with other guys. I see nothing wrong with casual sex if they are protected in every way possible.
2007-03-06 07:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by 88776 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should wait for true love. This world is so quick to have sex with someone without thinking about the consequences afterward. People are so easy nowadays, they give it up at the drop of a hat. I don't give it up to anyone, alot of guys don't date me very long because of that, but I sleep good at night because I have respect for myself. I don't care if they think I'm a tease, I'd rather wait for that special someone.
2007-03-06 07:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only some women dont....i have never given it up and i wont until i have met the person im totally sure i want to be with...also many women are very independent and dont need a guy to provide them with things...im one of them and proud!!
2007-03-06 07:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋