He and I have been 'together' since December and we have been pretty intimate nearly every weekend...ofcourse thats also how often I see him....He is a great guy, intelligent, sense of humour, and not badlooking...
BUT
He gave me a sex-book on Vday
He cant even bring himself to see a movie I want to see because he doesnt
I havent met any of his friends yet
I wont be meeting his fam for "quite a while yet" which is fine if I didnt get the feeling that I wont be meeting them at all
He doesnt want to meet my friends as my boyfriend.
I may be his first serious gf but am I expecting too much here?
I used to think he is shy but I have seen him interact with a couple of people I know who we ran into and he was goood. So it cant be that.
I tried to address these issues with him but he smoothly sidetracked it. I can arouse him and have him hard with just a touch but he does hardly anything to me. Sure sex can be worked on but what about the rest of the stuff?
Please help (male pov appreciated)
2007-03-05 23:17:26 · 10 answers · asked by Syn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This man is not serious about you he does not want to be known as your boyfriends for you to meet his family, you have not met his friends, and he doesn't care how he makes you feel in bed, I see a snake. Sounds like you are not his girlfriend does however sound like he has one whom I am sure he is fairly commit ed to but somewhat confused about. If that is not the case then with the sex book and the not pleasing you sounds like he wants you for one thing to please him and is not interested in a serious relationship with you.
2007-03-05 23:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm by any means not trying to be rude but sounds like he's got a lot of growing up to do and a lot of the just thinking about himself also. So my advice is if you want to stand by until he grows up that's gonna be totally up to you but if you want to be happy and respected and introduced as his girlfriend then i would say he's not ready for that right now and i would move on and give him time to think about what he lost and just maybe he'll wake up and start respecting you and how you feel. Good Luck!
2007-03-05 23:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he married? Keeping you a secret and away from his friends has a reason behind it...are you just for sex and not a relationship. You need to do some introspection and inspection in this delicate game of love/sex etc.
2007-03-05 23:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by missellie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i didn't like the part where he doesn't introduce u to his friends or his family. it means u re temporary and he is not into u. i suggest u have nothing to lose anyway cos in this case he will dump u after using u, so ask him the stright question - why is he with u. if he strats blabbering - kick him out immediately. u will have lots and lots of tears later if u don't do it now
2007-03-05 23:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing childish games...girl get you a real man that will treat you like a lady.....all I know is that he may have someone else in his life.....think have you been to his home?? He has not met any of your friends and he don't want to because they make mess up his game or they may know him.
2007-03-05 23:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by sexsired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 06:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scary.
2007-03-05 23:23:44 · answer #7 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is that he is playing you, he either has somebody and your his "weekend fun" or he is not ready to be in a relationship. I would recommend moving on.
2007-03-05 23:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically.he treats you like,sh*t,from what you say.
You trained him by letting him get away with doing this.
Change that immediately!!!
2007-03-05 23:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. make him feel comfortable and speak to him about everything frankly
2007-03-05 23:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋