my ex bf wants to still be friends even though he broke up with me on boxing day and told me that i wwasnt good enough for anyone and that i was worthless and used your bestfriend to get at you. What you do if this happened to you??
2007-03-05 23:10:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sure you know the answer to that question. Why would you ever consider being friends or anything else with someone who treats you that way do you want to make yourself hurt. Don't waste your time with a acidic person like that.
2007-03-05 23:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are we to decide your consequence.
You have gone through this experience and should know better.
Firstly a guy who knows not to respect has no self respect himself so do you want to be friends with a characterless and disrespectful person,who doesn't know what he wants in life.
he sounds like a bully and immatured brat.
Your not his mother,to be a friend tell him to go to school where he can learn and understand the meaning of friendship.
Friendship is not like onion and potatoes sold for cheap on street.
2007-03-05 23:27:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! sounds like my ex from 12years ago. said the same thing, but kept ringing me. my only advice. Follow what you head is saying and not the heart. following your heart on this one may cause you more grief and heartache then you have currently experienced from his words. my ex did the same thing to me 12 years ago. it took me at least 3 years to get over it, but in the end i literally had enough of the calls and visits. he is lacking self confidence and doesn't want you to enjoy your life. Go and live it you will be better off.
2007-03-05 23:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are different people when they're partners and different people when they're friends. If this guy is like that kind of person, then there's a slim possibility he may be worth being friends. But if he wants to be friends with you, the ball's in your court - make him prove to you that his friendship is worthy to you, ask him to do a favour for you as proof. If he can't be bothered, neither should you.
2007-03-05 23:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Testaco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd probably punch him,but that's just me..
Also,I'd get a new best firend as this one has lost all priviliges and now become a foe.Not all girls are like her,but I've had to be careful how I choose my friends...the ones I have now ,I trust.
2007-03-05 23:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
be wary - be very wary , obviously something has happened for this to happen , as in his new relationship fell through , my advice is , think about what he is able to offer you in love , and whether it is enough to be able to risk the hurt that you had on boxing day , but my advice would be , move away - move on , this one has shown the real colours
2007-03-05 23:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by DSV 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a dog, he just wants to hang on to you for any future usage. Let him go forget him and your bestfriend since you cant trust her and move on, plenty of nice guys that will treat you better!
2007-03-05 23:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by glazer_098 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd beeat his... no, no, Jk. I'd just leave him be. I wouldn't be his friend if he had told me I wasn't good enough or if I am worthless, Hell, that's just wrong, for me at least.
2007-03-05 23:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will definitely not be friends with him. He tells you hoe unimportant you are and turns around to want to be a friend of yours? Do you think that is logical? Its over, let it remain over.
2007-03-05 23:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by halliford 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First you decided if you love yourself... because if you do then you will not allow someone like him in your life. Same goes for that "best" friend that helped him hurt you.
2007-03-05 23:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋