i dated a guy for 7 months and his friend liked me at the time but never done anything bcuz i was taken.. the friend was textin me during this time
we broke up and now ive been texting the friend since then, i like him a lot and he hasnt metioned going out but he got me a gorgeous necklace for vals day and he texts me every day just to see how my day went?
and when i do see him we hook up i know there is no other girl hes interested and i know what hes like cuz hes my cousins bst 4nd...
when i was leaving yesterday after seeing him he whispered love you and i didnt know how to react so i pretended i didnt hear him
what the hell is going on does he want a relationship is he shy? or just wants to hook up? even tho i dont see him that often we live a gud bit from each other
soz if ya cant understand its hard to explain this
2007-03-05 22:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isnt friends with my ex anymore and its not cuz of me he doesnt care about the friend
2007-03-06 01:47:13 · update #1
and hes adorable for AS YOU LIKE IT
so cute
2007-03-06 01:48:39 · update #2
I talked to him about it, and now he says he wants to go out but it has to be a secret from his parents apparently their rely strict and its wrecking my head i feel like he wants to hide me away and to make it worse i see him ONCE a week... its not like i wud be going over to his parents house like so what the hell and i am not someone people have to hide
not bragging but i get along with elderly then i do my own age
is there any point to this relaitonship shud i give up??
thanks 4 all the help guys x x x x x x x x
2007-03-07 22:56:18 · update #3
You must be confused because for some reason you are refusing to see the obvious reality!!! This guy loves you!!! He is interested in you!!! He doesn't want to push because he is probably waiting for you to let him know when you are ready for another relationship!! Now stop being naive! (Just kiddin! ) Sorry, I don't want to sound mean. I know its hard to see it sometimes when you are that close to the situation. But "HE IS INTERESTED AND YES HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU!!!!" There, does that clear things up for you?
Anyway, good luck to the both of you and i wish you both all the best!!!
Bye!
2007-03-05 23:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he wants a relationship with you, but, the fact that you're his friends ex makes it touchy. Maybe he's afraid his friend will be upset if he goes any further with this. This is something the two of you need to talk about. Good luck
2007-03-06 07:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to ask him straight, maybe cause u've hooked up with him but never said u want to take it further, he thinks ur just wanting a bit of fun.
seriously girl, talk to him, it's the best way to get the answers ur looking for, they might not be what u want to hear, but isn't it best knowing??
2007-03-06 07:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Shoe_Addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know what he wants then you need to ask HIM. That is the only way you will know. No one here can tell you what he is feeling or thinking. So text/call him and asked him out to dinner. Then Talk about where the 2 of you are headed...
2007-03-06 07:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by debcat76135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say he likes you. Take it easy and let him continue to do the work. If its meant to happen it will and he is probably just being a little bit cautious because of your ex (his friend). Give it some time...chill out.
2007-03-06 07:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he really like you. BUt just remember this MIGHT be a ploy...we all know what guys are like but just make sure if you do 'get with' him that he keeps up the hard work. And dont ever let him fell like he has you 100% - thats when they loose interest.
He seems genuine- so give it ago... its the only way to find out.
Hope this helps!
Good luck
xxx
2007-03-06 07:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by little_millsey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
faint heart never won fair maiden.
this guy is inexperience or just thick when it comes to women
or
maybe he is playing YOU?
well, hang in there and be careful as this don't sound normal..its the quiet ones that you have to really watch..
you could end up with more then you can bargain for..a nut case.
2007-03-06 07:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants you to feel confused its all part of the game, called dating. He sounds really cute.
2007-03-06 07:17:47 · answer #8 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he wants to go out for dinner or sumthing he might just be shy and is scared u'll say no if he asked u out good luck
2007-03-06 07:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what differenc edoes it make, you will over analyze it, roll it up and make it a horrible thing, while you try to make sense from it, "what does this mean?" and by then, he will be long gone!
2007-03-06 07:05:01 · answer #10 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋