well basically about 5 weeks ago i found out something and i just wanna kno how u ppl would react basically my bf (omg dnt frak) he slept wiv a guy how would u react
2007-03-05 22:44:49 · 26 answers · asked by Nikki.babessssxoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's kinda hard to say...did you know he had bi-tendencies before? was it before you started dating? maybe you should have a talk with him??
2007-03-05 22:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by sweetDove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a pretty good question. as a guy it's hard to say. I mean i would probably leave but I would want to know why or how often. You'll find that if you approached him in a cool calm way, that he'll be open to talk to you about it. you can ask him right out or you can ask him like you are asking here. He'll answer to any as long as you don't offend him. I know it's hard because you are hurt or confused but it'll cut down on a lot of the problems that could arrive.
2007-03-06 07:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would simply ask him straight out if he is confused about his sexual prefrence than tell him to take the time he needs to think things thru and if he was for sure heterosexual,bisexual,or just homosexual.When he knows for sure which he prefers,he can come and talk with you about it,make him know that no matter what happends later on you and he will always be there for one another stress the point of happiness.OR MAYBE he happends to like having his cake and eating it to.
2007-03-06 06:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they only slept (literally) then there is nothing wrong with that. At least with a guy and not with a girl.
But if they "slept" in a figurative sense then its goodbye!Im not against gays or anything, in fact i like them but as a friend.
2007-03-06 06:48:48 · answer #4 · answered by tachabei 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohhhh you poor girl - i would ask him why he did it - it just could be curiosity. that would be my rationale answer. It all depends on the time you've been together - under 6 months i would shrug my sholders and move on and if it was over 2 years i would kill him for many reasons
2007-03-06 06:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by waltzing matilda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop him like a hot potato. THEN I would have a blood test for AIDS, as he could have slept with anyone.
2007-03-06 06:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt care
as long as he wasnt being unfaithful to you what he ahs done in his past is of no consequence my ex had a threesome when he was 21 was just experimenting
some people arent atrracted to physically things more who the person is and what they are about
their sex is irrelevant
2007-03-06 06:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by leelu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bin watching corrie?? lol
doesnt matter weather it was a bloke he slept with or a female, if he cheated on u then get rid of him, but if it was one of his past expeirences then dont worry bout it, soo many ppl r bi n gay nowa days, who cares! point is..hes with u now dont worry bout it! but if he cheated on u with this bloke then u can def do alot better!! xx
2007-03-06 06:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by katluvsu4eva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends... are you interested in a threesome?
If not, then I'd part the relationship and chalk it up to a life lesson.
Good luck!
2007-03-06 06:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some issues! Find a new guy.
2007-03-06 06:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by jingles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if my gf slept with another girl I would ask her to stop and I would ask to meet the person she was seeing if she did it again I would warn to break up with her 3rd time break up.
2007-03-06 06:49:09 · answer #11 · answered by Mike Ludkips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋