My b/f keeps on arguing with me over lil things.. he is to protective wat should i do??? i feel trapped. i dont want to finish it coz i love him and i have been with him for a long time help??? also he does what ever he wants but i cant ;(
2007-03-05 22:37:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump the punk find someone who will show you more respect.
2007-03-09 05:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by jim bob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he had a bad experience with an ex? This might be a reason as to why he is being so over protective with you. You need to talk to him. You can't let him treat you like a prisioner. If things carry on the way they are you will begin to lose your self confidence. You'll change without realising. I got myself into that situation and it wasn't good. A relationship needs to be balanced. Don't let him think that you are happy staying at home all the time while he goes out and has a good time. He'll lose respect for you. Love shouldn't be that difficult.
Speak with your boyfriend...good luck x
2007-03-06 06:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by GroovyChick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
na f.u.c.k that a boy who is controlling and the way he is, is wrong. i no they do it coz they want to protect you and dont want no boys coming onto you but in the end if he keeps it up you will in the end leave him. then he will no what he lost and will try and change for you. plus no one lasts forever so if he is treating you like this just move on and have fun. hope you choose the right choice. feel free to email me.
2007-03-06 06:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really have to love a man who is so selfish? this man obviously thinks of himself and not you. yeah you have been with him for 2 years but thats not a valid reason for staying with a bully! you dont deserve this...love is a give and take and not take, take, take...do you want to wake up 10 years down the road and wonder where your life went to? i dont think so...you best do something about it now before its too late...have you ever tried to tell him how you feel? if not do so please.....id rather lose a boyfriend than my sanity....all the bes
2007-03-06 06:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by friendlyeasterbunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't let you do whatever you want then either he doesn't trust you or he wants to control you. Either way it is not the basis for a healthy relationship.
Tell him things are going to change, and he can either put up with that or lose you. If he won't change, leave him and find someone who loves you enough to trust you and let you do what you want to do.
Things are likely to get worse....and worse.....and worse.....
unless you act now!!!
2007-03-06 06:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bloke is just the same very controllin at times i love him tons couldnt dump him we argue over stupid stuff we've even had a huge arguement in asda lol! but i still go out n he has his little stressy moods when he sed no ur not allowed but i still go out n hes fine the next day u need to show him ur not gunna let him go out while u stay in its not fair....if hes anything like my bloke he'll understand and still love u very much
2007-03-06 06:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him...my boyfriend used to be like this i said if you dont wanna lose me give me some space let me have time to do what i wanna do and supriseinglee he changed and we are sooooo much happier good luck =)
2007-03-06 06:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by lilshortyjess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he protective or controlling? I doubt he will change after two years.You either carry on as you are or move on.
2007-03-06 06:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
next he'll beat the living cr**p out of you, leave him and find a new partner
2007-03-06 07:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by david g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good if a guy is protective...but if he's controlling..then u need to consider if u can spend the rest of ur life doin wat he wanna u to do...u'll feel no freedom wat so eva...
if i were u...i'd consider breakin up...even tho its 2 yrs of ur life...its better now than realising when its too late
2007-03-06 06:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋