what did you do?
how old were you? is there a right age
2007-03-05 22:30:10 · 14 answers · asked by lisa j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is ur 1st time then do it with a person u like.
That will make u feel easier, and more comfortable.
Right age!!! That is different for everyone.
And i was 18.
2007-03-05 22:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by iona 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Should you be in love for your first time well that is entirely up to you, and just remember that you first time is something you will remember for the rest of your life so you have to think about that. I was young like 14 and I though I was in love. I don't regret the experiece but I wish now 14 years later that I would have done it with the man I married. Is there a right age yeah when it's right for you and safe. good luck
2007-03-06 06:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by renesarah1209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you want.
I was 16, (now I am 53) and I still remember my first time with regret.
She actually got mad because I didn't want to commit to her, I was just horney.
If you can live with a disappointed girl in your past, go ahead, but if I had it to do over again, I would have waited for that special someone so it would have been so much more pleasureable.
Be sure to use a condom in any case!
2007-03-06 06:37:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was with someone I really really love. It was 26 years ago and here we both are, still happily married. I was 20. Everything about it was so right. I think I'm probably the luckiest woman in the world. The funny thing is that I stressed more about saying "I love you" to him than having sex with him. The "I love you" was the BIG step. I had never said it to any other guy. When I did finally say it, I REALLY meant it. In my mind, the commitment was made.
2007-03-06 06:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first time has to be with someone you care about,otherwise you wont get to experience the most intense uplifting pleassure than if you were just messing around to get it over with is not cool.Never rush into a huge decision as this.If you have your first time with one you care for or love,you will be giving yourself up to trust,passion,and uninhibited sexual encounter that you will NEVER give or receive by just sleeping with some random jerk.SEX is not to be taken lightly all kinds of consenquences if neither one of you is prepared and or ready...Honesty,Trust,truethfulness,common courtesy are main factors for truly forever being with the one you love always....Think befor you act!!!Never leave behind regrets.
2007-03-06 06:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a guy...it is simple...just do someone/anyone/as you will always regret the ones that got away..i was so stupid and passed on a couple of gals and then later when you are self serving yourself..you often wonder what they would have been like..???
but for a girl ..they have to be more discrete as guys blab about their conquests..well most of them do...and even if you don't do them..they will rat you out anyway..so if you do it..remember there is a good chance he will tell his buddies and then you' are going to have to live with your reputation and also your kid sisters too..believe me..this kind of news travels fast...
2007-03-06 06:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please with do respect. Firstly if you love someone you will not do anything of that sort. If you think that the person is the one you are going to spend the rest of your life with then I can say you can but other than that NO!!!! Do not do it unless you think you are going to use that person or hurt their feelings. Age does matter!!!
2007-03-06 06:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by blondi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be with someone you love. Sex isn't the same otherwise. It's so much better when you and the person you are with truly love and trust each other. Save yourself for someone you love. You won't regret it.
2007-03-06 06:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by LeeAnna32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i believe it should be. Never just do it for the sake of it. I was only 15 and my boyfriend was my first and i was his. He believed in waiting to find the right person and now 12 years later we are happily married!
2007-03-06 06:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you should only do it with the person you love because it is ment to be the best. if you just done it with some **** then you wont have no good memories about it. i was 14 and i lost it in the most perfect way. now me and my girl have split up but at least i no i lost her virginity and it was the best.
2007-03-06 06:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋