what can a man do if he loves a woman that does not love him and you can get her to answer your calls?

Question

I use to date this lady and we broke up around two years agao, it wasnt a bad break-up, we talked for quite sometime after the break-up, but i move and lost contact, i have since found out how to contact her, however she dont return my calls or answer my letters. what should i do?

Answer 1

If she really gets your calls and ignores them - then may be she does not want you back - not because of you personally - but< as i think, of the feelings and thoughts about you. If she has someone now and likes him - then she can also try to avoid meeting you or having contact with you - for not to be confused and uncertain, Sometimes you feel that you have come over your break-up, but then you see your ex and some feelings come back and you begin to feel unsure about whether you wish to come back or not??? It hurts! ANd hurts a lot. So may be you can understand her and let her decide. Left your contact for her and may be she calls back.

Answer 2

I think you should look at the big picture. What was the last break up over besides you moved because love has no distance so if all you did was move and break up that was not love. Also just a little advice I probably wouldn't call you back either with a profile that says player on it. good luck

Answer 3

Never give up cause you will never forgive your self only comes once and if you give up you may never find a love like that again. Try go see her talk with her face to face and tell her how you feel and you need her in your life then you will no what the next step is from there good luck just believe in your love

Answer 4

The answer is probably found in the reason why you split in the first place. Some problems can never be resolved, while others only take good communication skills. You haven't said enough for anyone to answer your question.

Answer 5

It's dead. Give it up. Find a new girlfriend. She's not interested or she'd reply. Why make yourself miserable? That's all that will happen. Think of what an inconsiderate b*tch she must be to not even reply to your letters. Is that the kind of woman you'd want for a wife?

Answer 6

I'm in the same boat. I just write to her. I write to her like she's my diary. I love her though and I know she loves me but time has placed someone else with her. Eventually and I pray that she'll always be happy, eventually she'll come around and she'll talk. Maybe it'll be when she's hurt, lonely, happy, or just lost. Most important thing is, she'll know me, she'll respect me and she'll see that I love her and maybe she'll start to love me again. Just keep writing. Be her friend with distance. Show her you have changed and. Be her best friend and not her man. She has one. She doesn't have a friend like you can be.

Answer 7

take it like a man and go off into the sunset..better to leave then git the heave ho..but saying that..always tell them if they need you that you will be available..but you won't bother them unless they call you first..sometimes these women do come back..some guy or guys mess them over..it happens..

Answer 8

leave it alone, if she wanted to talk to you, she would have answered the calls or letters, i agree with the one person, makes you look like a stalker, she has def moved on, you need to also...keep pressing her, she can have charges for harassement put on you aight

Answer 9

You should now stop stalking her. She obviously doen't want anything to do with you anymore. Why is it so hard for people to take these hints?

Answer 10

She is involved with someone else, keep trying until she gets free, when no one else is available, she will reply to your calls.