as far as i seen,most of the girls are run behind the bad boys(i.e they have no responsibilities,no discipline,no manners and etc..,)
they r just impressing the girls.
but good boys dont want to impress the girls,bcoz they belive their character.
2007-03-05 21:57:30 · 14 answers · asked by the xeno 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know why we chose bad boys? because we are afraid to chose a good guy. with a bad boy we always know where it goes... even if it's gonna end up wrong we chose them. with a good guy who knows where things can go?
that's why we run for bad boys! that's why I do it at least...
I'll change my options in time. when I'll grow up...
2007-03-05 22:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask any single woman on the street what she's looking for in a man and she'll tell you that she wants a nice guy with a sense of humor who will treat her well. But then she'll turn around and fall all over herself trying to get to a Bad Boy who will use and abuse her.
Granted, what women say and what they actually do are generally miles apart, but even the usual female self-deceit doesn't seem to cover this one. So let's look first at some of the traits of the typical Bad Boy and see what you can learn from him.
The typical Bad Boy:
is cocky, arrogant
always puts himself first
is inattentive to a woman's needs
does what he wants when he wants to do it, regardless of what anyone else thinks
acts like a loose cannon
struts his masculine sexuality
isn't even remotely a "nice" guy
treats women badly
often uses women for sex
All negative character traits, to say the least. Yet women flock to these creeps in droves. Why? No sane woman would openly choose to be abused, so there must be some other factors operational here. To find the answer, we must examine the positive side of the Bad Boy traits to see what women are really attracted to.
A Bad Boy exudes untamed masculinity, independence and confidence. To women, these traits -- especially confidence -- are an aphrodisiac. The problem is, in the hands of the Bad Boy, confidence becomes selfish arrogance. But women are responding to guys like this on a purely elemental, emotional level.
Just as men are turned on by a woman's femininity, so too do women respond to overt male masculinity -- and the Bad Boy has it in buckets. What's going on here is that she's having a gut reaction to his confidence and male strength, and is blind to anything else.
So the trick is to learn to take the Bad Boy's negative traits and spin them in a positive direction to make them work for you -- in other words, to become a Bad Boy without really being "bad." This way, you can still maintain your gentleman status without turning into an abusive jerk.
2007-03-06 06:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a few years. These girls will come around. Or you can start impressing the girls that don't like bad boys. Not all girls like bad boys. Some girls really do like good and decent guys.
2007-03-06 06:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by Movielota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this scenario is have to referred back to the human nature.
see when a person(girl) is in her teen age time, they always look for boys who is cool, nice looking or someone that seems to be very tough which might protect her. but later on when they are in their 20-30y old, they started to look on guys that can bring them secure and also financially strong. so at that time, girls usually look at those good man.
2007-03-06 06:15:41 · answer #4 · answered by hollandchua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bad boy thing really is just a phase so don't worry im sure you will meet girl who's over the whole bad boy thing
2007-03-06 06:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just looking at the wrong girls. Take your time, the one you want may not be in the picture just yet!
2007-03-06 06:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think girls who look for the boys you are describing are those immature and those who are still in the "experimenting" stage in their life...wait a little more because as girls turn into women, they tend to look for good charactered men...
2007-03-06 06:02:32 · answer #7 · answered by J0iE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying,you'll find one,but nothing is wrong with improving your skills on how to woo a woman.Learn to do something new.
2007-03-06 06:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes many times it happens with some of the girls only.. but i do not think that all girls are of this type
2007-03-06 06:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by rockycold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you let girl treat you anyway they like, their not going to respect you. And if they don't respect you ,their not going to go out with you.
2007-03-06 06:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋