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Question

this girl goes to the same church i do, she and i were cool just 2 weeks ago, all of a sudden she stopped talking to me,i have asked her why and she gives me no answer. i text her sometimes and she answers sometimes only, i wrote her a big ole message on myspace and asked her if she could answer me back and give me her thoughts on what i wrote and she didnt , i really dont understand why shes doing this, she isnt stuck up or anything like that but i just think that there is something fishy or weird going on. is there a chance that she might like me and she is ignoring me for that reason, or she just doesnt like me as a person or she might now be comfortable enough to talk to me ..... let me know what you all think..... if you all could give me some ideas on what i could do or really good advice...... she is single by the way and i really wanna get to know her more , i dont like her as more then a friend yet but i believe there could be more someday if she lets it.

i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.

Answer 1

Hey, i am ready to talk and to help!
As far as i understand - you were having good relations two weeks ago and now something goes wrong. and also she is keeping in touch with your brother but ignoring you????

May be she got interested in your brother or just could not decide about you two???
Why does your brother text her???


weird situation. I think the first thing is keep your private life secret or out of your relatives.
Any way, if want - contact me on my email - [e-mail]

Answer 2

The way I look at it, the three of you are pretty young. That is fine, so here is what I would think. Something changed in the last two weeks that made her lose interest. I wouldn´t overthink it but examine what I said or did. And maybe or maybe not she is interested in your brother. Well, guys and girls get interested and lose interest all the time. Could be that she likes somebody else, or that she lost interest. Sorry to say, but I don´t think that it is because she likes you and is nervous or something. When girls who like a guy are nervous they usually have trouble saying sensible things around the guy, not completely avoid him. There are plenty of other women out there, especially since you have Myspace. Just continue on, I would say. Love and Respect.