why it happens in most of the datings and marriages?

Question

I want to ask one question that..

I have seen many times that girls are choosing bad looking boys for dating ( if he is rich).. and if any boy is poor then they do not want to go with him altough he is good person

Why they are looking for rich person??? can love, good manners, and everything will get by money?? girls please comment on the same

also boys plz comment whether i am saying correct or not? from your experience

Answer 1

Because all women exchange sex for money. Either directly in the case of prostitutes, or indirectly (movies, dinner, diamond ring) in the case of girlfriends/wives.

Looks, personality, manners and so forth are much lower in their priority to a woman.

That's just the way the female mind works.

Answer 2

Ermm... of course all of us girls would rather have a guy that is rich, hot, and still has good manners, but we figure that's impossible, the guy would be married by the time he's twenty!

I don't look for rich guys, I just want a guy that can support me, scratch that, can support himself, since I'm intending to work anyhow. Definitely, love is an important factor, though some might not agree with me. as the saying goes, you can't live on love alone. What is most important is food for your stomach.

I guess the other appeal is the bad boy appeal. Girls love to fantasi9se how they can tame those bad boys, but reality: we can't. Personality is very difficult to change, I agree. Still, it does us no harm to fantasise! Love, good manners, most people don't look at these things. Yet you have to agree if you like good looks it's lust. Good manners can't fill your stomach.

We have to be materialistic because the world is. We have to keep up the pace with the rest of the world because the hard truth is that if you don't, the likelihood is that we'll be left behind. I mean. everyone knows how important money is.

Answer 3

Subconsciously women equal money with success. That's how in our culture men are valued (even by other men, don't you think so!!). Which does not mean that all men with money are good. Those young guys with money usually did not work for it but got it from their dads. And those young immature girls do not make a difference between earned money and inherited money and go after those spoiled rich guys for the entertainment they can temporarily provide. Earned money is better because it shows you have the capacity to provide for your family which is tremendously important for a woman. A woman always needs to be sure that her husband will provide enough for a home, food, clothes, bills, entertainment, expenses for children and so on. Otherwise, it doesn't matter how good that guy is, he will always be one of the last to be chosen. I'm not saying here you need to be rich. I'm talking about life skills and reasonable ambition. And yes, looks does not matter too much. It is the your character and your ability to succeed in life that will attract a valuable woman to you.

Answer 4

Well not all girls are like what you said. Yes majority of them do look for rich boys... but you guys must know that there are girls who don't look for money

Answer 5

yes some girls in the collage used to like rich people so they can have more fun & trips - they do not care much about the quality of that person keep only shallow relation.
but not all girls r like that

Answer 6

that's not for all women! are you sure?
there are so many women out there i do not believe they all check for how much cash you have. i really believe that you have a problem with your flirting and you should work on that.
money means nothing looks are not everything.
now flirting is something you have to be smart about it to sense the right words at the right time...

Answer 7

because sport, you cant eat good manners and drive niceness, they want money to spoil them with, ... but I do agree with you, good guys finish last.