How do i make the right choices in relationships?

Question

i.e. choose btw two girls i'm very fond of?

Answer 1

Why choose? If you are careful and plan things right, you should be able to have both of them.

Answer 2

First of all don't listen to those who tell you that you should / can have both. It's rubbish, it's not okay and what comes around goes around.

You are a nice guy because you care to make the right choice and you don't want to hurt the girls' feelings, and that makes you a special man. The girls will rekognize this as well, and I can assure you girls find nothing more sexy than an honest lad.

If I were you I would tell them both that you find them increidbly attractive and that you are about to fall in love, but that you think she has deserved honesty and that your heart gives you mixed messages about her and another person you arfe dating.

Ask her if it would hurt her feeling if she knows this and if she wants to continue to see you, and that you can completely understand if she does not want to see you again, but tell her that you think life is to short not to try finding out more about another and if you can be frienda and just see what will happen in future.

This takes guts, but it clears the air, you will be a hero, both will adore and respect you and you can sleep at night because you did the right thing.

A side efect will be that the pressure is gone and you will see what develops, and chances are that you are gaining a lover and a freind, and not loosing any of them.

You might even, if you feel the timing and situation is right, introduce them to another.

Answer 3

Whoever feels the most right. Just be sure of it, because you might end up losing all chances with the other one. It might make it easier for you to make the choice if you were to know if either one was keen on you. One is, one isn't - makes it any easy choice :)

Answer 4

I agree with Maki, leave both of them, tell them you need "head space", then just get involved with loads of other stuff & you'll soon realise which 1 you should be with because she'll be the one you miss, the one you can't stop thinking about, the one you'd do anything to have with you every minute of the day.

Good Luck

Answer 5

just go with the one you can see liking you the most, and the one you have most in common with. try going out for a meal with them both and seeing which one you get on with better and which one shows more interest in you. that way it's only the two of u to hold a conversation, c if it works. make sure it's just a meal, it wouldnt b nice to string them both along and u wouldnt like it if they did that to u.

Answer 6

If you are dating casually, it isn't time to decide, but if you find yourself falling in love, be honest with both and choose the one for you.
It sounds like you are early in your relationships or fickle, if you are fickle, there is no cure.
If it is early, don't rush, many mistakes are made by rushing!

Answer 7

You'll never know which the right choice is! Try to be frank with yourself and the others and follow your heart!

Answer 8

Listen to your heart and try this trick. First go for vacation alone somewhere and then try thinking of each girl. Close your eyes and see whose picture comes to your mind.

Answer 9

Theres no exclusivity yet so why not date both of them and see who you like more or which chick can give you the best offer

Answer 10

Impossible to say, guess you just have to figure out what you really want and which girl could give you that. Or just follow your heart.

Good luck xx