What are some good conversation-starters for a first date?

Answer 1

Ask her what she did today.

Anything like new hair cut, -shopping, her sports teams, musical instruments, - anything she personally is interested in, - is a good place to start.

Then move to general topics she may be interested in, animal rescue, musical bands, moral causes, etc.

Answer 2

Finding something that is kind of random to respectfully disagree and playing devils advocate, I find, breaks the ice really well. Because, if a girl feels you can challenge and you aren't going to just agree with everything she says, you have a better shot. She'll find you more...personable I guess is the right word. Example: My ex and I lasted 8 months, and our first convo started by me arguing technicalities on if gymnastics is really a sport, and what constitutes a sport. But, she was a gymnast. So, make your own example.

Answer 3

Here are some possible options / ice-breakers:
- talk about hobbies / interests
- discuss career goals and wants
- mention family (not too much detail though !)
-Ask simple, open-ended questions
- ones that need a response longer than one word
- REMEMBER- Don't bring up sex or relations of that sort
- it is uncomfortable and appears desperate and creepy

Answer 4

Hello Per'The bestway to a woman heart is the stomach'.Take her to good eating house and take her a flower or a gift or a greeting card to tell her that you are in love with her.Do the best in her interest,name place loc,native parents,what she loves best.never say no to her in the first date

Answer 5

Since you got tons of advice on what to talk about, let me give you some advice on what you shouldn't talk about. Stay away from things like religion and politics...those can really stir up some tension if you guys have opposing views.

Answer 6

-what her day was like
-ask more detail about something that she is wearing eg: nice earrings, it really suits you, would you say its your fave pair?
-compliment her
-ask her interests and fave stuff and if she rattles on about food then you should order her fave and try it and she should try your fave

Generally conversations link to certain things mentioned. Just take it as it comes because its meant to be fun not a schedule.

Answer 7

what does she want to do? expand on that what she want s to do in the future and for hobbies remember her favorite subject is her.. she can talk all day about that and be cocky and funny not rude always show interest and dont suck up worst mistake, she has to feel like she is chasing you to an extent, you are the prize. DONT SUCK UP.....

Answer 8

Tell me about your work or what is your favorite hobby and explain it to me.
These work for hours on end sometimes and the other person will love talking about themselves, less work for you!

Answer 9

ask her stuff like her personal hobbies, interests. if something hit the spot which you like also, this will start for exchanging of notes, opinions. then one story will lead to another.

Answer 10

where all have you in the world have to travelled to...so u have back packed through eastern europe..me too...and one time I saw a little girl crying near the falls....