it ranges from 20 to over an hour sometimes. i'm getting sick of it. my ex did the same too. when i msg her to say i'm leaving the house she says ok and so i expect her to leave too, i find out she doesn't leave her house and she stays further from out meeting places than me. so i'm waiting and waiting. should i end it? it's so annoying.
2007-03-05 20:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by huckleberry58 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all i think that you should really tell her about the problem.. i don't think its a solution to end it up suddenly although i know its really anoying. talk to her about it and see if there are changes in the future.. maybe she'll be mature enough to understand cause i don't think she would really be glad to wait for you about an hour each time you want to meet..
2007-03-05 21:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, if you like this girl you should be patient. I am a tardy person too. My intentions are usually to be on time, but it just doesn't work out. Maybe she is in the same situation. Also, there is a possibility that her family is usually late to events ands other various things. It could be a habit of hers that she is used to. You can probably help her to change that.
2007-03-06 05:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by LifeCurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you putting up with it?! If another girl does that to you again wait for her to arrive and then leave immediately as soon as she gets there. Tell her the date ended 20 minutes ago and so did her chance with you.
Its a priviledge for her to spend time with you and she's abusing it.
2007-03-06 05:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by tubester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they say that it's a girl's prerogative to be late. you know being a girl requires lots of stuff. maybe she just wanted to look nice enough to be able to please you.
but i don't every girl is like that. i mean, i'm a girl but i am not always late meeting up with my boyfriend.
have you tried talking to your girlfriend that you don't like her being late all the time with your meetings? by the way, i suggest also to avoid you waiting for her in a certain meeting place, why don't you fetch her in her house. i don't know what set-up you have in your relationship but i guess that is one of practical stuff if you hate waiting in a place.
2007-03-06 05:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by diesel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll do that. Deep down every single woman believes that the entire universe revolves around her. If she is an hour late, then whoever or whatever will just wait. They don't seem to understand time in the same sense that we do.
2007-03-06 04:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like my ex-fiance! He was also always late, and what I've learned from this experience is that if she doesn't have enough respect for you to be on time or at least let you know beforehand that she is going to be late (and how late!), then, my dear, she's just not worth it!
2007-03-06 05:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this is a very annoying thing to cope with . You must get mad after waiting 1 hours everytime . "whole one hour is wasted for waiting her"
So you should decide
If you lover her and think she will change in time keep your relation going on otherwise you can cancel . .. : : :.. .: . : . . . .
2007-03-06 05:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by xeibeg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start doing that to her .It's rude of her and uncaring I would let her know how you feel; you can tell by her actions and comments if she's going to be considerate and stop being rude and making you wait for her.Good luck!
2007-03-06 05:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by sinful_1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump her. If she doesn't even make an effort in meeting with you on time, then it's clear that she takes you for granted and doesn't really appreciate the time she spends with you.
2007-03-06 05:06:06 · answer #9 · answered by somegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, confront her first... tell her you hate it, and it's really inconsiderate, and that perhaps she should make the effort to be on time, if she wants a date with you at all.
2007-03-06 05:01:15 · answer #10 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋