this girl goes to the same church i do, she and i were cool just 2 weeks ago, all of a sudden she stopped talking to me,i have asked her why and she gives me no answer. i text her sometimes and she answers sometimes only, i wrote her a big ole message on myspace and asked her if she could answer me back and give me her thoughts on what i wrote and she didnt , i really dont understand why shes doing this, she isnt stuck up or anything like that but i just think that there is something fishy or weird going on. is there a chance that she might like me and she is ignoring me for that reason, or she just doesnt like me as a person or she might now be comfortable enough to talk to me ..... let me know what you all think..... if you all could give me some ideas on what i could do or really good advice...... she is single by the way and i really wanna get to know her more , i dont like her as more then a friend yet but i believe there could be more someday if she lets it.
2007-03-05 20:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Cj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:19:55 · update #1
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:22:38 · update #2
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:26:18 · update #3
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:28:49 · update #4
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:38:02 · update #5
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:41:11 · update #6
i also forgot to add...... i have a bro who goes to school with her, shes 18 and im 20 anyhow , she seems to talk to my younger bro just fine, hes 17, like when he texts her she texts him back all the time, and all that. but when i do it she doesnt , maybe just sometimes but most of the time she doesnt. if there is any girl who wouldnt mind talking to me about this and is really good with advice and can figure things out can you please let me know. if you have a myspace let me know as well my url is www.myspace.com/jmxpx14 just send me a message letting me know that you are willing to help and ill send you the message i sent her and so you can read it and tell me what you think about it. thanks.
2007-03-05 21:46:57 · update #7
she either likes you or she heard a nasty rumor about you . you must really try and talk to her to sort this out otherwise you will be left in the dark . do you like her ? why not ask her to talk privately and just let her know your concerns . goodluck with this .
2007-03-05 20:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is actually the worst thing to do to someone, and it has happened to me twice. You're left with obsolultely nothing . And that is exactly what you need to do nothing. You have taken it upon yourself to ask and still haven't received an answer. Throw a party be glad you're rid of the drama. I don't care what happened she understands and realizes that this is bothering you and still will not say. What a self centered piece of ----.
I sincerely mean that. Her loss!!!
2007-03-05 21:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be really shy especially around boys that she thinks might like her
she may have been warned off you - like a friend telling her to stay away from you
her parents may have told he that she isn't alloud to date boys until she reaches a certain age ( a lot of girls at my school were not alloud to date boys until they were 18 and they all went to the same church )
maybee her parents monitor her internet and text messages - you never know. I suggest speaking to her in person and being straight forward with her - ask her why she didnt answer? ask her to be honest with you and you be straightforward and be honest with her about your feelings -
2007-03-05 21:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by pinkchampagne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it. She's obviously not sure what she wants if you get ignored or she's playing hard to get which is game playing and so not cool. If she really is worth it then be persistant but don't get your hopes up becuse if she really was that keen she wouldn't be able to resist texting you back
2007-03-05 21:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Candy_8866 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, dont worry she probably likes you, but on the other hand she likes someone else. Girls are not that naive you know! She probably know you like her, but since she likes someone else, she doesnt want you to get hurt or get to know the truth that she doesnt really feel the same way as you do,
2007-03-05 21:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by ~rAveLic!oUs~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly she have been given slightly uncomfortable approximately what you stated or in simple terms would not understand the thank you to respond to that. you could desire to instruct her which you're a guy of admire. tell her your sorry for sending that text cloth and that your additionally sorry in case you made her sense uncomfortable in any way and then ask her in case you adult men nonetheless choose to maintain in touch.
2016-10-02 11:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there can b sum kind of misunderstanding .Mayb somebody has told her somethg abt u that she dint like .
Y not invite her out and clear this up.
dont forget to take flowers along
2007-03-05 21:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by ng2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have done some bad thing for which she is ignoring you.. just ask her reason about the same.. you will get the answer
2007-03-05 21:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by sonali s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she doesn't want to hurt your feelings,,,but she doesn't want to be anymore than distant friends. Give her some space,,,if it is meant to be, then it will be.,,,
2007-03-05 21:22:24 · answer #9 · answered by Debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember, did you say somthing wrong/bad to her the last time you guys talked?
maybe she's juz moody...^__^
2007-03-05 20:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋