i like this girl in my office who's kinda hot..when i ask her wether she have a bf or not she said she's single..so i told her that i want to flirt her and she replied that she want us to become a friend first becoz she want to know me better..and that's fine with me..
but after few days she seems really different to me..she doesnt look me in the eyes and also didn't want to talk with me..my friends says she may be shy to me but i can't see that in her..
so..do you guys think that i should ignore her since im getting bored that she maybe not interested with me
2007-03-05 20:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by Erwin E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, ignore her and find someone else who will appreciate your attention
2007-03-05 20:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jerrica Starlight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she could be one of 2 things....1-shy or 2-playing hard to get. Either way the only way to find out is to give it some more time. Try to establish a friendship outside of work too and take it from there. People are different outside of work and if she isnt what you looking for then move on... you just friends anyway! No hard feelings
2007-03-06 04:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are coming on way too strong. Pretty much you approached her, said you were interested as to which she replied with the 'lets be friends' answer. Just cool it. If she's interested she'll talk to you.
2007-03-06 04:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try harder. I mean if you really like this girl, you won't give up so easily right? she is probably just shy, and at the same time playing hard to get.
2007-03-06 04:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try a lunch date to get to know eachother better and if it doesn't feel right then ya I'd give up but thats just me
2007-03-06 04:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bizzaregrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be normal. Don't act like things are different. Be yourself and be nice to her. She'll come around.
Or she doesn't like you at all and wants you to go away. But you won't know that until you try the first step.
TS
2007-03-06 04:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by The Stig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do u think? if she is boring and shy then i think you should tell her that you can just be friends with her then. well my suggestion
2007-03-06 04:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes waiting for you to make your move grab that a s s!
2007-03-06 04:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, go for it! I'm rooting for you!
2007-03-06 04:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Cheng Zhi Lim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she not interested you
2007-03-06 04:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋