How to understand if a girlfriend goes out with you not only because you have much money?

Question

I met a girl a week ago. And all we did together was sitting in a restaurant or in a bar and spending a lot of money. I haven't tried to do somethithg else with her because I haven't had anough time for that. But I think that it's possible than she doesn't like me and only likes spending my money. Probably I make a mistake thinking in this way. Could you help me to solve my problem?

Answer 1

she likes u AND your money. i don't see what's wrong with that. nobody likes losers without money. do not break your little head over stupid things. all women like money, nice restaurant and nice presents. those who don't are ugly losers who pretend not to


ps. was reading advices to u. so yaki cheap people. yewwww. do not listen to them. they are poor losers. there is nothing wrong having money and spending them.

Answer 2

I agree with many of the others - go and do something that doesn't cost money and see how she reacts. Or tell her you're going bankrupt, or that you have a humongous overdraft ....

A real test of her character is to see if she'll join you in doing some voluntary work (although you mentioned not having any time, but it's would be good to see) which involves both of you having to do physical work and getting your hands dirty. If she doesn't go for this, then you can either ditch her; or make sure you get your money's worth out of her, then ditch her. Obviously a woman like this is not a keeper.

Answer 3

Try telling her that you don't have any money to spare. Tell her that if you guys have to go somewhere expensive, you're afraid that she has to pay for the both of you. If she does go out all the same and pays for you, then she just likes living it up, it's nothing to be worried about.

If she doesn't, yet accepts your offer for a walk in the park or somewhere else that is romantic, like the beach on a moonlit night, don't worry about it; she just likes spending time with you.

If she insists on going somewhere expensive, and insists on you paying, she is either behaving like a spoilt brat, or she is really after you money. The latter is more likely to happen. If she makes an excuse before leaving, yo0u know that something is very likely to be wrong. Yet nothing can be a hundred percent accurate.

You might even shoot it to her and watch her reaction. Just ask her and see, if you are too lazy. However, that has a small chance of working. You'd probanbly lose her too, especially if she's petty. Most women are. Even me. If you do that, pray to god that she's understanding and has a good sense of humour.

Answer 4

well hun I guess your main problem is allowing her spend your money so early on!!! If you are kinda well to do I would suggest you dont flaunt the fact around the place becuase there ARE a lot of gold diggers that would only bother with a guy for his wallet. The fact she knows you have money now is a bit tricky - maybe on your next date you should mention that you're a bit strapped for cash and would it be ok if ye stayed in - or did something relatively cheap for a date - any girl thats with you for you will have no problem with this - a really decent girl will offer to return the favour from the first date and offer to pay for the date though!
If things dont work out with this one though - just be a bit more guarded over your wealth with any future female you develop an interest in!
xx

Answer 5

If you have money.The last thing you want to do is show her where
and how you live.Suggest your busy for a few days.Then phone her
on Friday or Saturday to make a meet for Sunday.All you do is go for a walk and talk(about all and nothing)Go for a drink maybe but
if she suggests a meal,then you have things to do.Excuse and leave.Next time you meet again do something frugal.Put a limit on
what you spend on the date.A low limit.If it's money she is interested in.She won't last long.

Answer 6

Its always easy to sucker in a woman by throwing up the CC, but you also have to deal with the fact that they see $ signs and get crazy. I say actually ask her to pay for your next date, or just go out and let her pay her half. She may be quite shocked by this, but in the end if this upsets her, she needs to hit the curb. She should be seeing you for you, and not for the tab you can rack up.

Answer 7

Its very easy next time dont spend money ,insted of taking her to d bar or restrnt ,take her n ur place/park/movies where u dont spend more money .N even if she is int on u after that then it means she like u not ur money.

Answer 8

You could give all your money and worldly posessions away to find out.

But you'd be a fool to try. You know she is only with you for your money.

Answer 9

easy solution: take her on a cheap date.

That's is: movies or...

picnic, indoor date- But the beauty of these 2 is, that u decide what is on the menu..so don't go for wines and strawberries etc, go for sandwiches, apples, normal coldrink.

then pay close attention to her reaction: Tight lipped or still smiling....you'll know ur answer almost immediately

Answer 10

Take her to your house to watch a movie, or do something with her that involves NO money at all. See how she reacts. Or cook her dinner at your house or something.