I am 24 years old. I love someone who is 55. At the beginning he treated me in a nice and kind manner; i just felt that i love him. i thought his method is a sign of loving me, but i descovered that its his way of being gentle with others. now i try to talk to him, email him at every opportunity. he's very busy, yet he replies. later on, his replies take a longer time than usual and im starting to feel awkward. the situation isnt natural; he doesnt feel that i love him, he thinks its only liking. I dont know what to do. You would think this is odd? or that i am ugly?? I am blonde, very pretty, yet I find myself attracted to old men. WHATS MY PROBLEM? I AM IN A DILEMMA.
2007-03-05 19:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by Me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cant control my heart and my passions. i love him sooooo deeply; i tried overlooking everything but i couldnt. once i'm so determined to leave it happens that he sends me a cute email, or just pays me attention during a long phone call. But I stopped seeing him for a year now.
2007-03-05 19:28:00 · update #1
We all have the types of people that we like hanging out with. You also chose the one you think is suitable to spend your life with. If you truly blieve he's the one, give it some time, maybe he's just scared that you are still too young and you may still be interested in other things. Give him some time, he'll come around.
2007-03-05 21:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wHAT IS THE PROBLEM you cant help you are attracted or yet who you fall in love with. it is different for everybody. i he does not know how you feel the only thing you can do is just tell him. it is all about communication if you think that things are going down hill in the relationship then just talk to him about to find out why dont sit around guessing and assuming.
2007-03-06 03:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you love him and want something more. Of he does not give that to you.
Just live with the set up he likes. If you expect something more, find some one else.
2007-03-06 04:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you like older men, stick to five years older than you. He is old enough to be your father. Try to move on and find someone who actually has mutual feelings towards you.
Good luck and G-d bless !!
2007-03-06 03:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u love him
2007-03-06 03:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Imran Syah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋