what do you do? Of course he isnt going to admit it, so do you become a detective and try to catch him? Please tell me how you would handle it. I really have good reason to think he is cheating, but it is so hard to know for sure. I dont want to end the relationship based on suspicion, and people dont normally tell you if your bf or gf is cheating, so how do you find out?
2007-03-05 19:15:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hire a PI or just dump his ***
2007-03-05 19:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
9 times outta 10 if u feel that strongly about omething, then it's more than likely "TRUE!" Believe in urself girl. It's hard to accept something like that, but u HAVE to for ur own sanity. U have NO need to see it w/ur won eyes, nor do u really want to. That would be a life-crushing ordeal. There's no need for it. Life's too short...don't live it in curiousity! Pray & the answer will come to u, but be prepared to accept what is!
2007-03-05 19:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there before lovey, truthfully anyone who has ever been in the field will tell you to go with your gut instinct. I have spent hours following and/or checking up in so many different ways in the past on men I suspected were the same and would never do it again. It's not worth your energy.. Your gut is usually ALWAYS right.
2007-03-05 19:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated and I did not play detective to catch him. I just waited and after a while it became obvious. I hate to tell you this, but if you suspect it, it is probably true. Personally, I asked my husband about it after it became obvious to me and he admitted it. Why don't you confront your boyfriend with your evidence or suspicions and see what he says?
Good luck to you.
2007-03-05 20:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love should be based on Trust.
You cannot be suspicious. If you have followed him and found nothing. Learn to trust him.
If you still sure of a hunch, then you need to do more to find out and be sure he is cheating.
2007-03-05 20:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down his phone, check pockets! Sound obsessive but just watch out for sneakiness in general. Its hard because he will deny it. But he won't be able to keep up his lies forever. Wind him up and tell him if he's not cheating, he will go and take a lie detection test. see how he reacts to that!
2007-03-05 19:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jade A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at everything else that is going on in your relationship. Are you feeling good about it? You may already know in your heart of hearts if he is cheating on you. I think you may consider telling him that you need to date others for right now.
2007-03-05 19:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by Melody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey his attitude towards you will change most of the time he will get annoyed with your calls and make excuses not to see you. but their is no full proof way to catch a guy unless you follow him around. But if you got a good reason follow it up cause it gona worry you. Good luck
2007-03-05 19:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by clxgolf2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say go with your gut. Sit him down and talk to him calmly. And just look at his body language and his reaction. That should tell you. and it sounds like maybe you had some issues from before, because if you trusted him this wouldn't be a issue, and your gut wouldn't be bothering you.
2007-03-05 19:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shan81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i reli wanna noe dat 2..n me n my bf does not stay 2gether..well..im not sure myself whether 2 go wit my instincts or not cuz sumtimes i feel like i might b wrong too..i do trust him but im stil wondering sometimes..
2007-03-05 20:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋