best threesome for a couple?????

Question

what is the best threesome, we both want one and decided we will, she wants a mff, but if we tried a mmff would that cut out the jelous factor for her down the track,

If you have experienced this before or been in my shoes what have ya done.

Answer 1

As tempting as it might sound to try it,

I'd just say don't do it.

It's not worth it.

Answer 2

I have personally found that when you introduce threesomes into loving, committed relationships, you always get the "jealous factor".

If you got another couple involved, then that would eliminate the feeling of being left out -- some people feel awkward and don't know how to participate when one extra person is added ... especially when their partner is paying attention to that extra person. This, however, isn't going to eliminate the possibility of jealous feelings on both parts.

Things generally work out better if you view the threesome or foursome as an extension of your current relationship and about experiencing new things together ... and they don't work out if the importance is stressed on getting to have a sexual experience with someone other than your partner.

It only took one time of being involved with a couple to determine that I didn't want to get in the middle of anyone else's relationship. There was alot of jealousy on both sides ... so ever since then, group sex for me has just been a good time had by numerous single people.

Answer 3

If she want mff,then shes is not a jealous girl.....shes willing to share you with another girl than she has enough self esteem thats shes ok with that..if you want mmff....thats can be looked at 2 different ways...most men dont want another man involved unless he has that "swinger" in him..you know what im saying...which is ok to...are you up to sharing your lady with another man...? this is a very common sex act these days---3 ways---most the time its mff though..there should be ground rules set be for you go full force with this plan...

Answer 4

Been there, done that and the t-shirt wore out years ago. I recommend fionding another couple. You can try the MFF and MMF and maybe get even more creative. It also helps keep the jealousy factor down and if anyone needs to catch breath or take a bathroom break it's no biggie.

Answer 5

We started with MFMF because as you mentioned, everyone is getting equal stuff and therefore it does help to keep anyone from feeling someone else got the better end of the deal.

Then we did a FMF after about a year of MFMF's. It was cool. Then we started doing MFM's after a while.

My favorite? MFMF and MFM. I like MFM threesomes because I love to see my being the center of attention and having a great time. When she does, then I do to.

Answer 6

well in my experience i will say that finding another stable couple that you are attracted to and going that route,. and here is why. every one has fun no one is gonna fall in love with anyone else every one already has someone they love involved. it also helps with the trust factor a little. my GF and i always go with a couple when we want a little "strange". it is safer and easier. every one tends to be little more comfortable. and no matter what anyone else says this will not end your relationship unless you let it. set ground rules before anything happens. like for instance my GF and i have a no kissing rule. we only kiss each other no one else and we always stick to that and we have had no problems. we also have a no anal rule. i only have anal with her and she only takes anal with me. its a more personal thing for her and i respect that. these rules have helped us have a lot of fun encounters while not causing any problems in our relationship. have fun.

Answer 7

sounds like someone wants to experiment with a man. go all out. have fun.

Answer 8

you are kidding right?

what in the worls are you thinking, are you tired of your relationship and want it to end?, thats whats in store for you.

Answer 9

whatever it is include me

Answer 10

i have no adea