Me and my girlfriend have been talking about a threesome, she wants another girl to join us. I know she is doing this because she wants to please me, i really want to do this because i've always wanted to lol. I am just get scared she would get jelous, would you think having a mmf threesome would cut the jelous factor out or should we just do a mmff?
2007-03-05 19:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could you say if you have been in my shoes before?
2007-03-05 19:05:43 · update #1
Unless you dont plan on being with this girl friend for very long, do not do it.
Jealousy will stick its head in there no matter wich way you go. Unless you are the third wheel, most relationships will not handle threesomes or moresomes...
2007-03-05 19:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by baldy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have had many threesomes and moresomes. Jealousy can happen either way if you are not secure in yourself and your worth to your girlfriend. If you feel like she could leave you at any moment for someone else, then including someone else in your relationship is not a good idea. If you know that she would never leave you for anyone else, especially over just sex, then you are a good candidate to actually live-out your fantasies together.
And the same questions apply to her.
Keep in mind though that jealousy is your personal problem and not the other person's. It is you being afraid of not being "good enough" for the other person to stay around. You don't see why they stay with you in the first place because you don't feel confident in yourself and your worth to others. Jealousy is neurotic insecurity in it's most basic form.
So if you are jealous, or she is jealous, remember that it is the individual's problem, not the partner's. In jealousy there is more self-love then true love.
As far as the mix goes: personally, I like them all. But I would have to say that MFMF and MFM are my favorites because I love to watch my wife in action. She is incredible and watching her from another point of view is seeing everything I don't when we're having sex together. She's my favorite pornstar. ;-) When we do FMF I'm the center of attention and I don't get to enjoy her enjoyment as much.
2007-03-08 12:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude every man has wanted at one time or other to do this. Just be advised that it can cause serious problem on down the road. You might want to reconsider it if you are planning on marriage on down the road. If not really think and talk about what you really want if you have the mff or the mmf. If I had it I would like for the women to be after each other as much as they were after me. Now would your girl be willing to do the les thing. After the mff would she want to do the mmf and would you be willing to share her. Just really talk it out and make sure you are not pressuring her into it. It will come back and bite you in the nads.
2007-03-06 03:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by edj009 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ffm threesome is too over rated, I would go for mmf... it's a lot more fun.
Just talk to her more about threesomes, and be careful because sometimes jealousy can happen after sex.
2007-03-06 11:20:56 · answer #4 · answered by Randy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mff Ive had both mmf ffm ya want to go with ffm alot more funner cause when its ffm and your the man it is so all about you.
But ya can do what i did, ffm first and then mmf cause then its all about her.
2007-03-06 03:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by whiteredblf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems an adventurous girl so try all 3 activities if you can find the right partners,many girls won't do either (despite what the media will have you believe) so make the most of your life,it's only sex it's not going to hurt you.
2007-03-07 22:54:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a dude, you should always go for the FFM this is guaranteed to be the best one. Unless you want to see another dudes hairy member in your woman.
2007-03-06 03:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing wrong with this. Just be sure to talk it out with your girlfriend first. How will you approach it? Will you focus on the other girl first, then her? What will she do? Communication is key, so just be open, and have a good time!
2007-03-06 03:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Iconoclast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male Male Female? That is gross man. Go with the Female Female Male buddy. I know it's morally wrong but if your going to have a 3some, have it with two chicks.
and I would only have a 3some if my girl wanted to do it. If she's willing to do it man, go for it. Good luck.
2007-03-06 03:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by General Vic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do it!!!!! yes she will get jealous and feel icky and she will blame you and that will be the end.
2007-03-06 03:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by nettie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋