Here’s the story the other day on my way to class I catch this girl staring at me, now what got my attention is that she kept staring back at me several times as we made our way to class she even stop to see if I went in the same lecture hall. Inside the class I catch her again looking for me (I guess to see where I was sitting). Well today we bump into each other again outside of class but this time she was ahead of me as soon as she saw me she stop and acted like she was throwing something away, she waited long enough for me to get next to her but I didn't say anything I just kept walking to class, then again inside the class I catch her looking at me. Now the strange thing is that we both look at each other but neither one smile and that's what is confusing me. I don't know what to make of this situation and is just confusing me even more, is she trying to get my attention? I'm I blowing it for not approaching her? Is she waiting for me to talk to her? Why doesn't she just say hi?
2007-03-05 18:55:39 · 11 answers · asked by Brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she hasn't said "hi" for the same reason you haven't. she is afraid of rejection. try smiling next time and see what response you get. if it is positive then say hi and see where the conversation goes. girls are as afraid of boys and rejection as boys are. DO NOT use a pick up line. girls really hate that.
2007-03-05 19:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by nettie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you waiting for a smile? Iinitiate one and you'll get one, in return. If you're just staring, you'll get a stare right back. Smile and say "Hi". You''l be surprised at how rare you are.
2007-03-06 03:03:54 · answer #2 · answered by bobchristel@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smile do wonders.
Next time if both of you look at each other, just smile, it wouldnt kill you and she'll get the signal that you are approachable.
2007-03-06 03:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by lemonfridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the tension develop more. And once it builds to the point that you can taste it, pop that big ole tension bubble by saying hello and break the ice yourself. Sometimes if you wait for her to do it, you'll miss your chance.
2007-03-06 03:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by blairs_smirking_revenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u remember to zip your pants? just kidding. shes waiting for u to make the first move.
2007-03-06 03:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by marinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jacka**. Make a move already. You are the one giving the mixed signals. She is telling go and your dragging your a**.
2007-03-06 02:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by ric_ozz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say hi or waiting more
2007-03-06 03:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Imran Syah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another hot and cold story...just be cool, be yourself man.
2007-03-06 02:58:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST play a long---and move slowly.
2007-03-06 02:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting more
2007-03-06 02:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋