What does it mean when you argue with your man over little things, sometimes without even telling him what you are upset about?
And then when he tries to explain himself, you act as if you WANT to be mad?
What's REALLY going on with that?
2007-03-05 18:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is called mood swings,all ladies have it once in a while.
Most women felt loved if their men knows what makes them upset without asking.
And of course,the man shouldn't be explaining, he should be asking first why is she upset.
At least,that's my opinion,it may not be true, since all women are different.
2007-03-05 18:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by FloralLover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st not all women actt like that. second their might be something deeper that you just aint catching.. women do have a tendency to not want ot explain and tell their men things outright and leave them to figure it out, how are they supposed to know what the woman is thinking.... something tho is definately bothering her on a deeper level maybe its time you investigate her emotion and feelings things maybe harbored in here like insecurities or such. just be non confronting when things get asked and comforting if things are there. remeber you may have not done something wrong but if an action made the woman upset it in some way hurt her feelings and she has the right to feel hurt and as a mature man respect that an apologie doesnt always mean right or wrong and who gets those titles. just more of a comforting acknowledgement of the other persons feelings. dont ever make things seem like they are foolish for her to feel the way she does. there are some things no one could really do and thats walk in the others shoes and be them but if you try to lok at the situation and see things from her point of views and the possibilities.... try that out. hope it helps u
2007-03-06 02:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...as ironic as it sounds, it could be an individual issue & have ABSOLUTELY nothing to do w/you, but wrong as it may be, we tend to hurt the one's closest to our heart's the most, in any kinda relationship. But, if NOT that, usually for whatever reason "U" obviously are the target & that could be various reasons. LoL More than likely, we're NOT happy & don't know how to tell u or we've gotten too comfortable & our relationship is no more than a hard habit to break now. There's always the negatives like guilt that we may be taken out on u, which always buys time & soothes that feeling from the guilt for a lil' while, too. Then it could just be harmones. Who knows? As hard as it may be, the only solution is to either just DON'T argue by NO means if your willing to deal with it, or walk away. Unless you can break-through to us {which is almost impossible in that mode sry LoL} there is NO one solution.
2007-03-06 02:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Brandi A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The smallest things can make a girl angry, and when she doesnt feel better about it, it kinda eats away at her. then she tries to ignore it, feels stupid about being upset about it, and gets madder and madder until she feels like she's gonna explode. then maybe a guy will say something wrong (even the smallest bit wrong) and it will just set her off. she doesnt want to tell you what's wrong, cuz she feels stupid about it. the best thing to do is give her your space and try to stay on her good side. dont argue, cuz she probably doesnt mean thehurtfull things she's saing.
2007-03-06 02:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by carxoxo07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously we women have issues within the relationship when we do this. It can be that we feel we arent getting the time or attention we want from our husband or maybe we feel guilty about something and have to try and find a reason to be mad at them make them in our minds have done something wrong so we dont feel as bad about ourselves. or we are bored. it really can depend on your situation. I do this to my husband for most of the reasons mentioned above. there are problems that need to be resolved and we dont know how.
2007-03-06 02:21:57 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that same question all the time.
I seriously dont know why I do that....but I do, sadly.
I was thinking though....maybe its cause the guy is right about whatever the argument is and the girl is wrong and that just makes her a whole different kind of mad.
ya know? lol :)
or maybe it's just that time of the month.
the visit from "aunt flo"
:)
2007-03-06 02:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by lady_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it just may be that time of the month and everything gets on our nerves, or maybe she's not feeling loved and appreciated but she's not gonna tell you that, we sort of expect you all to already know. just show her that you love her. sometimes that's all we need is for our men to comfort us and just listen to us, and the truth of the matter is you probably didn't do anything wrong, but that's how we are, you'll catch on
good luck
2007-03-06 02:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by bethany j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones most probably....i get ratty and have a go at my fiance mostly when i am due on or extremely tired.....its all down to hormones....get used to them ;)
2007-03-06 02:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs more sex- probably rough one. she is definitely not satisfied with sex situation and faking it all the time and getting tired of it
2007-03-06 02:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is going with her.. she is enjoying and guys are going mad... thats all!
2007-03-06 02:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by XYZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋