then when i turn down sex they get angry. I am looked down on because I dont have one night stands.
2007-03-05 17:58:22 · 32 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beacuse all men think with there gentials than with there brain...
2007-03-05 18:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by prettybee 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well it's disturbing if you just met the person and they want sex the same day. You must be drop dead gorgeous, that's the only way I can explain it, or you've got a personality that makes a guy just want to you fall in love with you instantly. I will say that a guy can and will get angry if he feel he is being led-on or is getting teased. He'll play the patience game for only so long, and if you close the door to sexual heaven after leading up the 3-mile driveway to the door.... he's going to get pissed. I'm not saying this is what you are doing, I'm just saying that this is the number one way to make a guy mad. In the end, it's up to you on what to do... it's a mutual act, and if he can't respect a 'no', then he doesn't deserve any kind of relationship with you.
2007-03-05 18:09:08 · answer #2 · answered by metagg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you only go for the idiots the don't respect woman next time try talking to the guy with glasses or just someone you wouldn't normally talk too. Jocks and the really cute guys think they can get anybody so all they want is the sex because they probably have a GF and are playing the field if you get my drift. In the old days it was called sewing the field or spreading there seeds. Do not fall for a guy who is like honey your so beautiful why don't we go upstairs and have sex "Moron no morals what so ever" Good luck finding Mr. Right. About that last quote it may happen in the future when you get married it is your husband trying to be romantic just go with it if you too are in the mood.
2007-03-05 18:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them break you!!! Don't let jerks lower your expectations and self-esteem!! You don't have sex with them because you want more!!! You know that you are not a cow to be milked. It costs to be the boss!!! You are doing the right thing. Dudes are always trying to get you to do the nasty, but then they be on the corners or in the clubs talking about "That dirty chick and lying on you". Girl, keep doing what you do and you will be okay!!! There are some good ones still out here, but I ain't found them yet either. So until till we do, remember there is someone else out here with the clamps down too. Stay true to the real game!!!!
2007-03-05 18:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by mackdingy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand that society as we know it has created the "Sex" starved men of today. Everywhere you look, sex is being used to sell. Music lyrics are full of inuendos. TV shows sexual content continuously via music videos and movies. Men growing up with this being bombarded on them creates a society where sex is normal and expected in a relationship.
You (And I) appear to be more Old School. We believe that sex is a beautiful sharing of oneself with someone you really love and want to spend the rest of your life with.
Be aware of how you dress when you go out. If you wear clothes that shows off your womanhood, you are saying,"Come and get me." How you portray yourself tells guys how far they can go with you. There is a lot to be said of clothes you wear, if you flirt or not, and what you say to guys you meet.
2007-03-05 18:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Matthew D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men you will ever meet will want sex..
Not many will expect it or become angry if
you turn them down on the first date for a
one night stand...
After several dates, many of them will simply
stop asking you out if you don't want to have sex.
2007-03-05 18:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its probably your outset in not as your inset. Let me elaborate, you make be making some indications that you need sex in an unknowing way and that make the guys feel that you want it. And when a guy is coming up to you to go ahead with it and you put a brake on it....it sure is to hurt him cause then he would think that you feel he is not up to the mark. So better...change your look and sober down, go to places where you would meet people with brain in the head and understand
2007-03-05 18:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by faizanramball 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm i am gona have to say, you need to find other men. I really dislike the way girls can throw around the generalization that all men want is sex. It would be correct to say alot of men want sex, but not all men.
I think that you need to meet other guys and figure out that not all men that you meet, only want sex. Regis thats my final answer.
2007-03-05 18:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Wooble222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that very respectful. True most guys just want sex but hang in there, You will find the one guy for you. All great relationships are built on trust and if the guy is pushing you to have sex before your ready, then he's a dog. Don't settle for less than you deserve.
2007-03-05 18:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a lot of guys but don't give in stand up for what you believe in. If that is all they want there not worth it they don't respect you at all. You might feel that your looked down on but be proud of your self for having self respect it don't matter what other people think you have to live with your self not them.
2007-03-05 18:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're looking in the wrong place. If you're going to clubs, that's probably the reason. Men go to clubs and bars for one night stands. They go to book stores and coffee houses for relationships.
2007-03-05 18:09:09 · answer #11 · answered by Jack S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋