Just curious. This guy and I dated off and on for about 6 months. We broke up (took a break) once before and he called me about a month later. Then we were just kind of talking for a couple of months. Then we started to get back together, but then I tried to end it because I needed to make a decision if I was going to move away for school or not. He got mad and told me never to call him again. I apologized, we talked, his ending comment was he doesn't want to get back together because he is over it (i kinda feel the same way) and that he thought we would be better off as friends and we have had some good conversations and it would make him sad if we never talked again. I felt the same. I know that at this point in our lives be can't be together. We can't communicate about our relationship. But in almost every other way we understand each other more than anyone else. I thought it would be great if we could be friends. But its been over a month and he hasnt called. will he ever?
2007-03-05 17:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by menau 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you were truly important to him then yes he will at less try to phone you or write to you.
2007-03-05 17:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess it depends on what he's doing now. You will find out that many of the people you are great friends with will drift as your life changes. Some will be beside you for many years, some not so long, and everything in between. Personally I find that it never gets easier when you care about someone and never see them again, yet it's part of life. It's worse these days with the cell phones and computers, because we say more to each other. Sometimes I would like it to be 100 years ago to have less of a stressful life....except they had no indoor toilets then.....oops, got off the subject, Sorry.
Don't worry if he does or doesn't call. Just know that the time you spent together was fine while it was happening....and live your life.
2007-03-05 17:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by Keep it Simple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have in common everything else,then give it time he is taking your breakup a little harder then you did but eventually he will come around and down the road even give you advice on a relationship that you might be having with someone else
2007-03-05 17:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by tisownleeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's waiting for you. He won't call you, I can almost gaurantee that but I'm just some guy on yahoo answers so...at least decide something b/c nothing's going to happen just thinking and whatever.
2007-03-05 17:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, please don't take this the wrong way.
You are wasting your time and energy with this guy. He is not coming back, you don't want him back and in the meantime there are at least 100 guys every week who check you out, but your head is not in the game. Wake up and see who is looking at you and you'll forget this guy ever happened.
2007-03-05 17:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur saying you ok to be friends with him but you keep waiting for his call
be honest with yourself coz i think you still like this other person
if you really want to talk to him then do the 1st move friends doesn't have to wait for each other on who will do the 1st move :)
2007-03-05 17:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by angelgrace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still has deep feelings for you but ego and fear of pain has kept him from you
he is protecting himself and maybe its best
try to get with him
like show up where he is at and work it all out and be together u could probably get married
2007-03-05 17:33:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
t6
2013-12-29 15:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋